Comments on: Is it considered adultery to date before a divorce is final? https://askgramps.org/considered-adultery-date-divorce-final/ Moral answers to everyday concerns, curiosities, and uncertainties. Gramps considers all questions on all topics from all sources. Wed, 29 Sep 2021 03:15:26 +0000 hourly 1 By: Douglas Self https://askgramps.org/considered-adultery-date-divorce-final/#comment-35699 Fri, 12 May 2017 19:45:00 +0000 http://en.elds.org/askgramps-org/?p=35442#comment-35699 In reply to Nolan Moore.

Some members can be such insensitive clods. Just let it roll off your back like a duck shedding water.

]]> By: Nolan Moore https://askgramps.org/considered-adultery-date-divorce-final/#comment-35434 Mon, 26 Dec 2016 03:22:00 +0000 http://en.elds.org/askgramps-org/?p=35442#comment-35434 Going though one myself, be careful. I go do stuff with “friends” and just “hang” even though i’m over 40. My wife left me and the church. But to say that divorced people in the church are ostracized” that is fully an understatement. I have lost friends who wont even acknowledge me at church anymore although many know the situation and that i still remain active and she has left the church. I find some people are very judgemental. “Oh you’re divorced? youre damaged goods” Even one friend whos been divorced, his first Sunday in the ward, a lady came up to him and asked if he was married he said he was going through a divorce. She said “oh, well. . . nice to meet you.” and left.

]]> By: Angelsings https://askgramps.org/considered-adultery-date-divorce-final/#comment-34937 Mon, 06 Jun 2016 13:27:00 +0000 http://en.elds.org/askgramps-org/?p=35442#comment-34937 In reply to Patrick Hussey.

Patrick, Whereas, it’s understandable how you might perceive that, when someone does something against God’s law, which dating while separated (still, legally married) is, even, if there’s no sexual contact, the Spirit IS grieved (gone against) & does withdraw according to Scripture. The husband in this particular situation may not realize this or, perhaps, knows it but does not care. He will be held accountable for his actions. The wife, obviously, knows dating before legally divorced is a transgression against the laws & commands of Heavenly Father. It’s surprising how many people think it’s acceptable to date while separated (even, legally separated) but it’s not & they should wait until legally divorced. Also, they might want to consider the wisdom of not “going from the frying pan to the fire too soon”.

]]> By: Patrick Hussey https://askgramps.org/considered-adultery-date-divorce-final/#comment-34933 Sun, 05 Jun 2016 13:06:00 +0000 http://en.elds.org/askgramps-org/?p=35442#comment-34933 How do you know the husband has grieved the spirit and it has withdrawn? You don’t know that for sure. That is an arrogant thing to say in my view.

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