If you have a husband who isn’t righteous and following God first, of course you shouldn’t follow his ways.

In a similar vein, if a child has unrighteous parents, they should not follow in their unrighteous ways. You can honor someone without following or agreeing with them.

I appreciate your response. I think the issue is with the wording in the original response. It says should I follow, and you responded to me with should I honor. Following someone into sin is wrong-no-brainer. Honoring someone means respecting them regardless but it doesn’t mean follow. And I do believe it’s unenlightened if you have to ask that question as a wife then you have been following man and not Heavenly Father in the first place. I don’t know any woman that would ask that question myself, thankfully.

Hello Kim — It appears you have added to Gramps words. Gramps doesn’t mention that women should follow their husbands NO MATTER WHAT, nor does he imply they are a package deal regarding the atonment. He specifically states that the young man’s question is similar to a question women have asked in the Church, “Should I honor my husband if he is breaking the commandments.” Gramps answer specifies two great commandments, love God, love thy neighbor. Of course, women should follow God in keeping the first great commandment when their husband is breaking commandments. As to women asking this question it has been asked and it doesn’t make them “unenlightened” as has been suggested. The question will allow them to be “enlightened” for their profit and learning, just as this teenagers question will allow him/her to be enlightened pertaining to the commandments given by God, and as Gramps mentioned their personal accountability.