https://askgramps.org/married-wrong-man/ Moral answers to everyday concerns, curiosities, and uncertainties. Gramps considers all questions on all topics from all sources. Wed, 29 Sep 2021 03:29:45 +0000 hourly 1 https://askgramps.org/married-wrong-man/#comment-33407 Tue, 07 Oct 2014 18:03:00 +0000 http://en.elds.org/askgramps-org/?p=12031#comment-33407 Here’s what I think:
If you truly did disobey the spirit, there will be consequences, even if you cannot yet see them (I guess one of them is that, even after 20 yeas, you still can’t love your Husband). Maybe the Spirit was in fact telling you to marry this non-member- I in fact had a friend who had the spirit tell her not to marry her fiancee (and still married him) so I know these things really happen-
However, you have made your choice- and, because you recognize your mistake, you can learn from it, and if you do, you will not be forever lost. Try to love your husband, and ask God what you can do now that you are in this relationship.
God, knowing all things, knew you would disobey the spirit, so you being married to this member is no surprise to Him.
He will provide a way for things to work out- all YOU have to do is try your very best with where you are at, and be more fearless in the future at following spiritual promptings. Leave the past mistakes in the past; do what you can for your future. Use the experience you have to teach your children the importance of following the spirit.
And Keep moving forward, believing that God will make all things work out for those who listen to His Spirit and obey.

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