Gramps,

Why do we believe in being buried in our ceremonial temple clothes? Is it more than just the symbolism?

Shae

Answer

Shae,

Saying goodbye to someone we love is never easy. Even when our faith gives us hope in the Resurrection, the loss of a loved one can leave us with a deep sense of sadness and longing. For Latter-day Saints, the funeral and burial of someone who has received their temple endowment can also carry special spiritual meaning. One practice that families may observe is dressing their loved one in sacred temple clothing.

But why do we do this? Is it simply a tradition, or does it represent something deeper? And is there more to it than symbolism?

To understand this practice, we need to look at the sacred covenants made in the temple, the Church’s burial guidelines, and the hope we have through Jesus Christ. These teachings can help us understand why temple clothing is meaningful to many Latter-day Saints, while we remember that our greatest hope rests in the Savior and His promise of eternal life.

The Church’s General Handbook, section 38.5.10, explains that deceased endowed members should be buried or cremated in temple clothing if possible. If cultural traditions or burial practices make this difficult or inappropriate, the clothing may be folded and placed next to the body.

Why is this practice important to us?

When members receive their temple endowment, they participate in sacred ordinances and make covenants with Heavenly Father. The ceremonial clothing worn during these ordinances is associated with those commitments. Being buried in that clothing is a way of honoring the sacred experiences and covenants that have been part of the person’s life.

For many Latter-day Saints, the temple is one of the most sacred places on earth. It is where they make solemn promises to God and learn about His plan for His children. Being laid to rest in temple clothing can be a deeply personal expression of devotion to the Lord and a reminder of the commitments that shaped their lives.

But is it more than just symbolism?

To understand this question, we need to recognize that symbols have an important place in LDS worship. The scriptures use physical objects and outward actions to teach spiritual truths. Baptism, for example, represents the death and Resurrection of Jesus Christ, but it is also a sacred ordinance performed under God’s authority. The sacrament uses bread and water to help us remember the Savior and renew our commitment to Him.

Temple clothing is connected to sacred ordinances and covenants in a similar way. However, we should be careful not to assume that the clothing itself possesses some special power that determines what happens to us after death.

The Church teaches that temple garments are sacred and serve as a reminder of our covenants with God. Keeping those covenants helps us remain focused on Jesus Christ and His teachings.

However, the Church does not teach that being buried in temple clothing guarantees salvation, resurrection, or exaltation. Those blessings come through Jesus Christ and His Atonement, according to God’s plan. Our eternal destiny is not determined by the clothing in which our bodies are laid to rest.

What does this have to do with the Resurrection?

Latter-day Saints believe that death is not the end of our existence. Because Jesus Christ overcame death, every person who has lived on earth will be resurrected.

In Alma 40:23, the Book of Mormon teaches that the spirit and body will be reunited, with all things restored to their proper and perfect frame.

The soul shall be restored to the body, and the body to the soul; yea, and every limb and joint shall be restored to its body; yea, even a hair of the head shall not be lost; but all things shall be restored to their proper and perfect frame.

This promise gives us hope when we bury someone we love. Although death brings real grief and separation, we believe that the grave is not the end of the story.

For an endowed member who treasured the temple, being buried in temple clothing can be a meaningful way to connect the end of mortal life with the covenants and spiritual commitments that were important throughout that life. It can also serve as a reminder to family members of their loved one’s faith and hope in God’s promises.

Still, the Resurrection does not depend on whether someone is buried in temple clothing. A person who is cremated, buried in ordinary clothing, or unable to be dressed in temple clothing is not excluded from the Resurrection. The power to raise the dead belongs to Jesus Christ, not to the clothing placed on the body.

The Church recognizes that circumstances differ, which is why its handbook provides alternatives when temple clothing cannot be used appropriately. Families should not feel that they have somehow diminished their loved one’s eternal prospects if circumstances prevent them from following the usual practice.

So, does temple clothing have special power?

It is important to distinguish between the sacred nature of temple clothing and the idea that the material itself has independent spiritual power. Latter-day Saints treat temple clothing with reverence because of its connection to sacred ordinances and covenants. But we do not believe the clothing functions as a magical protection or guarantees a particular eternal reward.

Our faith rests in the Savior, His Atonement, and His promise that death will be overcome. Temple covenants matter because of the relationship with God that they represent and the commitments we make to follow Him.

Ultimately, being buried in temple clothing is a meaningful expression of faith and devotion for many endowed members of the Church. It honors the sacred covenants they made during mortality and reflects their belief in the eternal nature of God’s plan.

But the most important part of that belief is not what a person wears at death. It is the Savior who makes the Resurrection possible and offers the hope of eternal life.

When we see an endowed member laid to rest in temple clothing, we can remember the faith that guided that person’s life and the promises of God that extend beyond the grave. We mourn because we love, but we also look forward with hope because of Jesus Christ.

That is the heart of the practice: honoring sacred covenants while placing our trust in the Savior, who conquered death and made eternal life possible.

Gramps

Gramps,

Will King Solomon go to the Celestial Kingdom?

Theo

Answer

Theo,

The question of whether King Solomon will go to the Celestial Kingdom is an interesting one because the Bible describes him as a king who received great blessings from God but later turned away from the Lord. The Book of Mormon also speaks strongly against some of Solomon’s actions. When we look at this question through the teachings of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, however, we need to distinguish between what the scriptures actually teach and what we might assume about Solomon’s eternal destiny.

The short answer is that Latter-day Saint scripture gives us serious reasons to question whether Solomon will receive exaltation, but we should be careful not to claim more certainty about his final judgment than the scriptures provide. His story is a powerful reminder that receiving God’s blessings does not remove our responsibility to remain faithful to Him.

King Solomon’s story begins with remarkable spiritual promise. He was the son of King David and became king of Israel after his father. When the Lord appeared to Solomon in a dream, He invited him to ask for whatever he wanted. Solomon asked for an understanding heart so he could judge the people wisely. The Lord was pleased with his request and blessed him with wisdom, riches, and honor (see 1 Kings 3:5-14).

Solomon also built the temple in Jerusalem, which became a central place of worship for ancient Israel. At its dedication, he offered a beautiful prayer asking the Lord to hear the prayers of His people (see 1 Kings 8:22-53).

But Solomon’s life took a troubling turn.

According to 1 Kings 11:1-10, Solomon married many foreign women who worshipped other gods. The Scriptures say that as he grew older, his wives turned his heart away from the Lord. Solomon began following other gods and built places of worship for them. The Bible describes this as a serious departure from the faithfulness God expected of him.

The Lord had warned Israel’s kings against multiplying wives and turning their hearts away from Him (see Deuteronomy 17:17). Solomon’s choices were therefore more than a personal weakness; they represented a rejection of the spiritual responsibilities he had been given.

The Book of Mormon also addresses Solomon’s behavior. In Jacob 2:24, the Lord declares:

“Behold, David and Solomon truly had many wives and concubines, which thing was abominable before me, saith the Lord.”

This passage is important because it shows that Solomon’s conduct was not presented as an example for the Lord’s people to follow. The Lord’s condemnation of his behavior is clear.

At the same time, Latter-day Saint scripture teaches that plural marriage is not automatically sinful in every circumstance throughout history. Doctrine and Covenants 132:38–39 discusses David and Solomon in connection with their wives and concubines. Verse 38 states that they, along with other servants of God, received wives and concubines, but sinned in things they received not from the Lord. The passage then specifically states that David fell from his exaltation because of his actions involving Uriah and Bathsheba.

This distinction matters. According to Latter-day Saint teaching, the issue is not simply how many wives a person had. The issue includes whether a practice was authorized by God and whether the person remained faithful to Him. Solomon’s particular sin involved marrying women who turned his heart away from the Lord.

So, what does all this mean for Solomon’s eternal destiny?

In Latter-day Saint theology, the celestial kingdom is the highest of the three kingdoms of glory described in Doctrine and Covenants 76. However, receiving exaltation in the highest degree of the celestial kingdom involves more than having once been faithful, receiving spiritual gifts, or accomplishing great things for God. It requires faith in Jesus Christ, repentance, obedience to God’s commandments, and faithfulness to sacred covenants.

Doctrine and Covenants 131:1-4 explains that there are three degrees within the celestial kingdom and that celestial marriage is necessary to obtain the highest degree. Doctrine and Covenants 132:19–20 further explains the promises associated with that covenant and the need to abide in it.

Solomon’s story raises serious concerns about whether he met the requirements for exaltation. He received extraordinary blessings but later turned away from the Lord. His wisdom and accomplishments did not excuse his disobedience.

However, there is an important distinction between saying that Solomon’s actions were sinful and claiming that we know every detail of his final judgment. The scriptures describe his spiritual decline, but they do not provide a complete account of everything that occurred between Solomon and God at the end of his life. We should therefore be cautious about claiming to know more about his eternal fate than the revealed record tells us.

Latter-day Saints believe that God is perfectly just and knows the heart, understanding, opportunities, and choices of every individual. His judgment takes all of those things into account. That does not make Solomon’s disobedience unimportant, but it does remind us that the Lord is the final judge.

Ultimately, we cannot confidently declare that King Solomon will inherit the celestial kingdom, and his scriptural record gives us substantial reason to question whether he will receive exaltation. His story is a warning that even someone who begins with great faith, spiritual gifts, and blessings can turn away from God.

Solomon’s life also reminds us that wisdom alone is not enough. Knowing what is right and actually living according to that knowledge are two different things. The Lord wants more than our talents, accomplishments, or moments of spiritual greatness. He wants our hearts.

And perhaps that is one of the most important lessons we can take from Solomon’s story: it is not enough to begin our spiritual journey well. We must continue to follow the Lord, repent when we fall short, and remain faithful to Jesus Christ throughout our lives.

Gramps

Gramps,

In the resurrection and in heaven, will gay people still be gay?

Dave

Answer

Dave,

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has not revealed a specific answer to that question. The Church teaches quite a bit about resurrection, eternal identity, marriage, and same-sex attraction, but it does not teach that a person’s sexual orientation will automatically disappear at death or that it will necessarily remain exactly as it is in mortality.

That distinction is important.

The Church’s current teachings are actually quite clear that experiencing same-sex attraction is not itself a sin. The Church’s General Handbook (38.6.15) states that the Church does not take a position on the causes of same-sex attraction and that experiencing same-sex attraction is not a sin. Members who experience those feelings and do not act contrary to the law of chastity can participate fully in Church life, subject to the same standards as other members.

The Church’s current resource on same-sex attraction similarly explains that experiencing same-sex attraction or identifying as gay or bisexual is not a sin. President M. Russell Ballard also taught that “the attraction itself is not a sin.” The Church distinguishes between experiencing an attraction and choosing how to respond to it.

President M. Russell Ballard’s statement can be found here:

So, when we ask what happens after death, we shouldn’t begin with the assumption that being gay is something that must be “fixed” by the resurrection. The Church does not teach that simply experiencing same-sex attraction makes a person spiritually defective.

At the same time, the Church does teach that sexual relationships are governed by God’s law and that eternal marriage is between a man and a woman. The Church’s teachings on marriage describe it as a union between a man and a woman, part of God’s plan for the eternal destiny of His children.

The Family: A Proclamation to the World states that marriage between a man and a woman is ordained of God and that the family is central to God’s plan.

This is where the question becomes more complicated.

The scriptures teach that the resurrection is a real restoration of the person. Alma taught that “the spirit and the body shall be reunited again in its perfect form” and that “everything shall be restored to its perfect frame.” (Alma 11:43–44)

Elder Dallin H. Oaks explained the LDS understanding of resurrection in his April 2000 General Conference address, “Resurrection.” He taught that “the resurrection is much more than merely reuniting a spirit to a body.” He discussed the Resurrection as a restoration and explained that the spirit and body would be reunited.

That gives us an important principle: the resurrection doesn’t turn us into completely different people.

We don’t suddenly lose our memories, personalities, or individual identity. Alma teaches that the Resurrection involves restoration, and the teachings of the Church emphasize that our individual identity continues beyond death. But does that mean sexual orientation necessarily continues unchanged? We don’t know.

This is probably the most important point to make when answering this question according to LDS doctrine. The Church has not revealed whether sexual orientation is something that continues eternally in exactly the same way it is experienced during mortality. It has also not taught that the resurrection itself changes someone’s sexual orientation. In other words, we should be careful about making a claim that goes beyond what has actually been revealed.

Some people have suggested that because the resurrection restores us, everything about us—including sexual orientation—must remain exactly the same. Others have suggested that everything considered a consequence of mortality will disappear in the next life. Neither conclusion has been established as official LDS doctrine concerning sexual orientation.

The Church does make an important distinction between gender and sexual orientation.

The Family: A Proclamation to the World teaches:

“Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal, mortal, and eternal identity and purpose.”

Notice that the statement specifically speaks about gender, not sexual orientation.

That means we shouldn’t take the Church’s teaching that gender is eternal and automatically conclude that sexual orientation is also eternal. Those are two different subjects. At the same time, we shouldn’t go to the opposite extreme and say that gay people will definitely become heterosexual in heaven. There is no revealed doctrine establishing that either.

There is another important piece to consider. The Church teaches that eternal life involves receiving the blessings God has prepared for His children. But it also recognizes that not every person will experience every promised blessing during mortality.

The General Handbook explains that faithful members will receive the promised blessings in eternity, even when their circumstances prevent them from receiving certain blessings in this life.

That is an important principle because it reminds us that mortality does not tell us everything about a person’s eternal circumstances.

Ultimately, LDS doctrine teaches that Jesus Christ’s Atonement and Resurrection overcome death and make eternal life possible for God’s children. The central question isn’t simply whether someone experienced same-sex attraction during mortality. The gospel focuses on our relationship with Jesus Christ, our faith, repentance, covenants, and our efforts to follow Him.

The Church’s teachings also emphasize that every person has divine worth. The Family: A Proclamation to the World says that every person is “a beloved spirit son or daughter of heavenly parents” and possesses a “divine nature and destiny.”

So if someone asks, “Will I still be gay in the resurrection?”, the most accurate LDS answer is that we simply don’t know.

We know that the resurrection restores the body and reunites it with the spirit. We know that gender is described as an eternal characteristic. We know that experiencing same-sex attraction is not itself considered a sin by the Church. We know that God’s promises extend beyond mortality. But the Church has not revealed whether a person’s sexual orientation will remain unchanged, change, or no longer be experienced in the same way after the resurrection.

That last point is important enough to repeat: there is currently no official LDS doctrine that answers the question of what happens specifically to sexual orientation after death. For that reason, it would be inappropriate to tell a gay Latter-day Saint, with certainty, “You will still be gay in heaven,” just as it would be inappropriate to say, “God will make you straight in the resurrection.” Neither statement is something the Church has revealed.

What we can say with confidence is that God knows His children perfectly, Jesus Christ knows exactly what each of us experiences, and the Resurrection is ultimately a restoration to immortal life—not the erasure of our individual worth. There are things about the next life that God has revealed, and there are things He has not. On this particular question, sexual orientation falls into the second category. And sometimes the most faithful answer to a difficult doctrinal question is simply: We don’t know yet.

What we do know is that Jesus Christ is the Savior of all of God’s children, that the Resurrection is real, and that God has promised blessings beyond what we can fully understand in mortality.

The things God has not revealed, we can safely leave in His hands.

Gramps

Gramps,

I have always taught my children that God is mighty to save—that people who have not accepted Jesus Christ in this life still have a meaningful opportunity to accept Him in the next. Because of that, I’ve shared my belief that many—perhaps even most—of God’s children will ultimately accept the gospel, receive temple ordinances, and inherit the celestial kingdom.

Recently, my son, while serving his mission, expressed this view to some of his companions. They disagreed. Do we know how many will?

Karl

Answer

Karl,

The short answer is that we have not been given a specific percentage or number. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has not revealed that, for example, 50 percent, 75 percent, or some other percentage of God’s children will ultimately enter the celestial kingdom. We do, however, know quite a bit about what God has provided for His children, and several Church leaders have expressed a very hopeful view of what will happen when the gospel is preached to those who did not have an opportunity to receive it during mortality.

The doctrine begins with the fact that this life is not the only time in which people can hear the gospel. The Church teaches that those who die without having had an opportunity to accept the gospel can be taught in the spirit world. Doctrine and Covenants 138 describes the Savior organizing righteous spirits to preach the gospel to those in spiritual prison.

Doctrine and Covenants 138:30-32 explains that the gospel was preached to “all the spirits of men,” including those who had died without an opportunity to hear it during mortality. The Church’s teachings on the spirit world likewise explain that the gospel is taught to those who did not have an opportunity during mortality to receive it and its saving ordinances.

This is important because it means God judges people fairly. A person who has never heard about Christ is not judged in exactly the same way as someone who understood the gospel clearly and deliberately rejected it.

In fact, Doctrine and Covenants 137 gives us an extraordinary example of this principle. Joseph Smith saw his brother Alvin in the celestial kingdom, even though Alvin had died before the Restoration and before baptism was restored. The Lord explained:

“All who have died without a knowledge of this gospel, who would have received it if they had been permitted to tarry, shall be heirs of the celestial kingdom of God.”

The revelation then teaches that God will judge people according to the desires of their hearts and the opportunities they had been given.

That principle is enormously important. God knows His children perfectly. He knows what a person would have done if circumstances had been different. Someone isn’t condemned simply because of the time, place, family, culture, or circumstances into which he or she happened to be born.

But what about people who have died without accepting the gospel? Will they actually accept it when they are taught after death?

This is where some statements from Church leaders become particularly interesting.

President Wilford Woodruff expressed a very hopeful view of missionary work in the spirit world. He taught that when the gospel was preached to those who had died without receiving it, “very few, if any,” would fail to accept it.

The Church has preserved President Woodruff’s statement in its teaching materials on family history and the redemption of the dead.

That is a remarkably strong statement. It certainly gives Latter-day Saints reason to have hope for those who did not accept the gospel during mortality.

President Lorenzo Snow expressed a similar belief.

“A wonderful work is being accomplished in our temples in favor of the spirits in prison. I believe, strongly too, that when the Gospel is preached to the spirits in prison, the success attending that preaching will be far greater than that attending the preaching of our Elders in this life. I believe there will be very few indeed of those spirits who will not gladly receive the Gospel when it is carried to them. The circumstances there will be a thousand times more favorable.”

President Brigham Young likewise taught that an enormous number of people would have received and obeyed the gospel if they had been given the opportunity. He spoke of “thousands and millions” of the inhabitants of the earth who would have accepted the gospel had they been given the privilege.

These statements are fascinating because they show that the hopeful idea you have taught your children isn’t simply something someone invented recently. There is a long history of Church leaders expressing confidence that large numbers of God’s children will respond positively when they finally receive an opportunity to hear and understand the gospel.

There is, however, an important distinction we need to make. These statements from Church leaders should not be turned into a revealed percentage. President Woodruff did not say that the Lord had revealed that 99 percent of people would accept the gospel. President Snow did not establish a numerical doctrine about the celestial kingdom. They were expressing their understanding and hope concerning the response of people in the spirit world.

So we can say that Church leaders have taught very optimistically about the number of people who will accept the gospel after death, while also saying that the Lord has not revealed an exact number or percentage of His children who will ultimately inherit the celestial kingdom.

There is another important point. Being given the opportunity to accept the gospel is not the same thing as being forced to accept it.

Latter-day Saint doctrine strongly emphasizes agency. Temple ordinances performed for the dead do not force a deceased person to become a member of the Church or to accept the gospel. The ordinances make the blessings available, but the individual can still accept or reject them. That means we shouldn’t teach that everyone automatically goes to the celestial kingdom simply because temple work is eventually performed for them.

At the same time, we shouldn’t assume that someone who didn’t accept the gospel during mortality is therefore lost. The restored gospel presents a much more hopeful picture.

Jesus Christ’s Atonement reaches beyond the grave. The gospel is preached in the spirit world. Saving ordinances can be performed vicariously in temples. People retain their agency after death. And God judges His children according to the light, knowledge, opportunities, and desires of their hearts.

So, where does that leave the question your son was discussing with his missionary companions? It would not be correct to say that we know most of God’s children will enter the celestial kingdom. We haven’t been given that revelation.

But it would also be inaccurate to suggest that Latter-day Saint teachings give us no reason to believe that many people will accept the gospel after death. Quite the opposite. Presidents Wilford Woodruff, Lorenzo Snow, and Brigham Young all expressed remarkably hopeful views about how people who receive the gospel respond in the spirit world.

Perhaps the safest way to express the belief is this:

We don’t know exactly how many of God’s children will ultimately accept the gospel and inherit the celestial kingdom. But we do know that God provides every person with a fair opportunity to receive the gospel, either in this life or the next. And several Church leaders have expressed the belief that very large numbers of people will accept that opportunity when they finally receive it.

That leaves the final choice where it belongs—with each individual and with God, who knows perfectly what is in every heart.

And I think that is one of the most beautiful parts of the Restoration. We don’t have to decide ahead of time who is “too far gone.” We don’t have to assume that someone’s lack of opportunity in this life means a lack of opportunity forever.

We can trust in the Savior’s Atonement, do our part in gathering Israel and performing temple ordinances for the dead, and leave the final judgment to Jesus Christ.

We don’t know exactly how many will accept Him.

But we do know that God is mighty to save, and He has provided a way for all of His children to hear the gospel and receive its saving ordinances.

Gramps

Gramps,

Do you think people who have died get to Paradise and realize there, the mistakes they have made in this life– like how badly they treated someone– and feel remorse for it once they are through the veil? And are they given the opportunity to repent from that? I am hoping this is the case. Thank you for your time and consideration.

Edith

Answer

Edith,

One of the comforting teachings of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is that death is not the end of our existence, nor does it necessarily end our opportunity to learn and grow. When we pass through the veil, our spirits continue to live in the spirit world, where we remain conscious individuals with our personalities, memories, agency, and ability to learn. Because of that, it is reasonable to wonder whether someone who treated another person badly during mortality might come to recognize what they did after death, feel genuine remorse, and desire to repent.

According to Latter-day Saint doctrine, there is good reason to have hope that this can happen.

The Book of Mormon teaches that after death, our spirits enter the spirit world. Alma explained that the spirits of the righteous are “received into a state of happiness, which is called paradise,” while those who rejected righteousness experience a different condition (Alma 40:11–14). However, the spirit world is not simply a place where everyone waits for the Resurrection without learning or changing. Modern revelation teaches that the gospel is actively taught there.

Doctrine and Covenants 138 gives one of the clearest descriptions of what happens in the spirit world. In a vision, President Joseph F. Smith saw that Jesus Christ organized righteous spirits to carry the gospel to those who had died without receiving it. These spirits were taught “faith in God, repentance from sin, vicarious baptism for the remission of sins,” along with other principles of the gospel (Doctrine and Covenants 138:33).

President Russell M. Nelson addressed this subject directly while serving as a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles. He asked:

“Each living person can repent. But what about those who have died? They also have opportunities to repent.”

He then quoted Doctrine and Covenants 138, explaining that the gospel of repentance is preached among the spirits of the dead and that “the dead who repent will be redeemed.”

That statement is important because it makes clear that repentance is not something that simply becomes impossible the moment someone dies. This does not mean that people can knowingly reject God, mistreat others, and simply plan on fixing everything after death. The scriptures strongly warn against procrastinating repentance. But the doctrine of salvation for the dead clearly shows that God’s work of teaching His children and inviting them to come to Christ continues in the spirit world.

That may also help answer the question of whether someone can recognize after death how badly they treated another person.

Imagine someone who spent years being cruel, selfish, neglectful, manipulative, or simply unwilling to acknowledge the pain they caused. In the face of mortality, people can become very good at justifying their behavior. Pride, anger, jealousy, fear, resentment, or misunderstanding can make it difficult for us to see ourselves clearly. Sometimes a person genuinely does not understand how deeply their actions affected someone else. In other cases, they may know they caused pain but refuse to admit responsibility.

Death does not erase those choices, but passing through the veil may eventually bring a clearer understanding of them.

Alma taught that we do not become completely different people simply because we die. He warned that “that same spirit which doth possess your bodies at the time that ye go out of this life” continues with us afterward (Alma 34:34). In other words, death itself does not instantly transform a selfish person into a loving person or a prideful person into a humble one. Our character matters, and the habits and desires we develop during mortality continue to matter.

At the same time, the spirit world provides opportunities for teaching, learning, and repentance. A person who spent their mortality misunderstanding God, other people, or even themselves may eventually encounter truths they previously ignored or could not see. It seems reasonable that this greater spiritual understanding could include recognizing the consequences of how they treat others.

The scriptures frequently link spiritual awakening to greater awareness of our own sins. Alma the Younger provides a dramatic example. After being confronted by an angel, he suddenly understood the seriousness of what he had done and remembered his sins with overwhelming clarity. He described himself as being “racked with eternal torment” and said his soul was “harrowed up” by the memory of his sins (Alma 36:12–17). Alma had not physically died, but his experience illustrates an important principle: when our spiritual understanding changes, our view of our own behavior can change dramatically as well.

Repentance also involves more than simply realizing we were wrong. President Joseph F. Smith taught:

“When we commit sin, it is necessary that we repent of it and make restitution as far as lies in our power.”

He went on to explain that there are times when we cannot personally repair everything our actions have caused. In those circumstances, we must rely upon the grace and mercy of Jesus Christ. He asked, “Who shall repair the wrongs they have done to themselves and to others, which it seems impossible for them to repair themselves?” His answer was the Atonement of Jesus Christ.

That teaching is especially meaningful when the person who caused the hurt has already died. Sometimes there is no longer a mortal opportunity to apologize, repair a relationship, or undo the consequences of something that happened years ago. But that does not mean repentance or the healing power of Christ’s Atonement has become meaningless.

The scriptures also suggest that ultimately we will see ourselves and our choices with greater clarity than we sometimes do now. Alma taught that our “words, our works, and our thoughts” will be part of our judgment (Alma 12:14). King Benjamin spoke of people having a “lively sense” of their own guilt (Mosiah 2:38). Excuses and rationalizations that seemed convincing during mortality may eventually look very different when we see ourselves and our actions more clearly.

Someone may spend years saying, “I didn’t do anything wrong,” “They deserved it,” or “They were the problem.” But God knows exactly what happened. He knows not only what someone did but why they did it, what they understood at the time, what opportunities they had to choose differently, and how their actions affected other people.

We should be careful, however, about claiming that we know exactly what a particular deceased person is currently thinking or feeling. The Church does not teach that everyone immediately passes through the veil and suddenly understands every mistake they ever made. Unless God reveals something about a particular individual, we simply do not know their present spiritual condition. What we can say is that Latter-day Saint doctrine leaves room for continued learning, increased understanding, remorse, and repentance after death.

This can be especially comforting when someone has died without ever making things right. Perhaps they never apologized for the way they treated someone. Maybe they never acknowledged the damage they caused, or they died still believing they had done nothing wrong. When that happens, the person who was hurt may be left without the conversation, apology, or acknowledgment they hoped would someday come.

The doctrine of the spirit world gives us reason to believe that death does not necessarily leave those misunderstandings frozen forever. A person who could not or would not recognize the truth here may eventually come to understand things differently. If that understanding produces genuine sorrow for wrongdoing and a desire to turn toward Christ, repentance is part of the gospel being taught in the spirit world.

There is an important caution in all of this. Amulek warned, “do not procrastinate the day of your repentance until the end” (Alma 34:33). We should never assume that we can knowingly mistreat people, refuse to repent, and simply fix everything after death. The kind of person we become during mortality matters, and deeply rooted attitudes and desires do not automatically disappear when the body dies.

Still, that warning does not mean God’s mercy ends at the grave. The entire Latter-day Saint doctrine of salvation for the dead teaches that God’s work continues in the spirit world. People can hear the gospel, exercise agency, and repent, while saving ordinances can be performed on their behalf on earth.

So, could someone who has died eventually realize how badly they treated another person and feel remorse for it? Latter-day Saint doctrine gives us good reason to believe that such recognition is possible. Could that person desire forgiveness and turn toward Jesus Christ? Again, there is reason for hope. We simply do not know exactly how or when that process takes place for any particular individual.

Ultimately, that person is in the hands of a Savior who understands the entire story. Jesus Christ knows what happened, what was intended, what pain was caused, and what was in the hearts of everyone involved. His judgment is perfectly just, but His Atonement also makes repentance, mercy, and healing possible.

For someone who was hurt and never received an apology or acknowledgment during this life, that can be a comforting thought. The person who hurt us may have passed beyond our ability to speak with them, but they have not passed beyond God’s ability to teach them. There is reason to hope that truths they could not see here can eventually become clear and that someone who did not understand the hurt they caused in mortality may someday recognize it, feel genuine sorrow, and turn to Christ.

We cannot know everything happening on the other side of the veil, but we can trust that God has not forgotten either the person who caused the hurt or the person who experienced it. His plan provides for truth, justice, mercy, learning, repentance, and ultimately the healing made possible through Jesus Christ.

Gramps

Gramps,

Does time exist in the next life?

Bruce

Answer

Bruce,

Latter-day Saint doctrine does not fully explain how time works in the next life. However, the scriptures and teachings of modern prophets do provide several clues. Those clues suggest that while our experience of time will likely be very different from what we know now, there is still sequence, progression, and purpose in eternity.

One of the scriptures that often starts this discussion is found in the Doctrine and Covenants. While explaining the nature of God’s knowledge, the Lord revealed:

“The Lord God… all things are present before mine eyes.” (Doctrine and Covenants 38:2)

This verse tells us that God sees all things at once. He is not limited by the past, present, and future the way we are. That doesn’t necessarily mean time doesn’t exist for God. Rather, it means that God’s knowledge is not limited by time. He perfectly sees the beginning, the middle, and the end.

Another important scripture is found in the Book of Abraham:

“Now the Lord had shown unto me, Abraham, the intelligences that were organized before the world was…” (Abraham 3:22)

A few verses later, the Lord teaches that one revolution of the star Kolob is equal to one thousand years according to the earth’s reckoning (Abraham 3:4). This is fascinating because it suggests that time can be measured differently depending on where you are. God’s way of measuring time is not the same as ours.

Peter taught something similar in the New Testament:

“One day is with the Lord as a thousand years, and a thousand years as one day.” (2 Peter 3:8)

Peter wasn’t giving us a mathematical formula. Instead, he was emphasizing that God is not constrained by the clock the way we are. His perspective is eternal.

Some people assume that because eternity has no end, there can be no time. But the scriptures suggest otherwise. Consider what happens after resurrection. We know that people continue to learn, serve, worship, and grow. Temple sealings continue to have an eternal effect. Families continue forever. God’s work of bringing to pass the immortality and eternal life of His children continues (see Moses 1:39).

All of those activities involve sequence. One event happens after another. We make choices. We gain experience. We continue to progress. That strongly suggests that some form of time—or at least order and progression—still exists.

President Russell M. Nelson has repeatedly taught that “time is running out” and has called the gathering of Israel the most important work taking place on earth today.

Elder Neal A. Maxwell frequently spoke about eternity and God’s perspective. He explained:

“God does not live in the dimension of time as do we.” (The Pearl of Great Price Student Manual)

Although Elder Maxwell acknowledged that we do not fully understand how God experiences time, he emphasized that God’s eternal perspective is far greater than ours.

One important point to remember is that eternal life does not mean simply existing forever. Eternal life means becoming like our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. That kind of growth implies continual learning and development.

The Lord declared:

“This is my work and my glory—to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man.” (Moses 1:39)

Work involves action. Glory involves accomplishment. These ideas suggest movement and progression rather than complete stillness.

Joseph Smith also taught that learning continues beyond this life:

“Whatever principle of intelligence we attain unto in this life, it will rise with us in the resurrection.

 

And if a person gains more knowledge and intelligence in this life… he will have so much the advantage in the world to come.” (Doctrine and Covenants 130:18–19)

This is another indication that life after death is active rather than static. We continue to grow in knowledge and understanding. Growth naturally involves progression from one point to another.

So, will we have calendars, clocks, or twenty-four-hour days in the celestial kingdom? The scriptures simply do not say. Those are mortal ways of measuring time based on the rotation of the earth and the movement of the sun. Since resurrected beings will not be living under the same physical conditions, it seems unlikely that time will be measured exactly as it is now.

Instead, the scriptures seem to point toward something much greater. God’s children will continue to progress, learn, create, and serve in ways that are perfectly ordered according to His eternal purposes. There is a sequence without the pressures of mortality. There is progression without deadlines. There is purpose without decay.

Perhaps the best way to think about it is this: our experience of time will probably change dramatically, but eternity is not described as endless inactivity. Rather, it is described as endless life, endless joy, endless learning, and endless opportunities to become more like our Heavenly Father.

In the end, we simply do not know all the details. The Church has no official doctrine explaining exactly how time functions after this life. What has been revealed is enough for us to know that God lives above the limitations we experience, that He sees all things perfectly, and that His faithful children will continue to progress forever.

That truth is both comforting and exciting. Whatever “time” looks like in eternity, we can trust that Heavenly Father has prepared a future far more wonderful than we can currently imagine.

Gramps

Gramps,

Will black people become white when they reach heaven,  or after the resurrection?

Michele

Answer

Michele,

I will admit that I was quite taken aback and felt a slight cringe at the question. I will attempt to answer it in the same spirit in which I am hoping it was asked.

According to the current doctrine of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, there is no teaching that a person’s race or skin color changes after death, at the resurrection, or in the celestial kingdom.

So where did this idea come from? Like many misconceptions, it has a complicated history involving scripture, speculation, and statements by some past Church leaders. Understanding the difference between official doctrine and historical opinions helps answer the question clearly.

The Church teaches that every person is a beloved child of Heavenly Parents. Our eternal worth has never depended on race, skin color, nationality, or ethnicity. President Russell M. Nelson taught:

“The Creator of us all calls on each of us to abandon attitudes of prejudice against any group of God’s children.”

That message reflects the Church’s current and consistent teaching that all people are equal before God.

One reason people ask this question is that passages in the Book of Mormon mention skin color. For example, 2 Nephi 5 describes the Lamanites receiving “a skin of blackness,” while 3 Nephi 2 later says that some Lamanites became “white.” For many years, some members assumed these verses referred to literal skin color and even believed they suggested that righteous people would eventually become physically white.

However, today’s Church does not teach that interpretation as doctrine.

Earlier editions  of the Book of Mormon described the Lamanites as becoming “a white and delightsome people.” It currently says they became “a pure and delightsome people.” That wording matches 2 Nephi 30:6.

Many Latter-day Saint scholars also point out that scripture frequently uses colors symbolically. Throughout the Bible, words like white, black, light, and darkness often represent purity, holiness, sin, knowledge, or spiritual conditions rather than literal skin color. While faithful Latter-day Saints may disagree about every detail of these passages, there is no official doctrine teaching that exalted people undergo a racial transformation.

Another reason for the confusion is that some Church leaders in the nineteenth and twentieth centuries expressed opinions linking righteousness to lighter skin. Those statements reflected assumptions that were common in American society at the time. While those leaders sincerely believed what they taught, the Church has made it clear that not every statement by a Church leader constitutes official doctrine.

In 2013, the Church published the Gospel Topics essay Race and the Priesthood, which directly addressed these historical ideas. The essay states:

“Today, the Church disavows the theories advanced in the past that black skin is a sign of divine disfavor or curse… or that blacks or people of any other race or ethnicity are inferior in any way to anyone else.”

That statement is significant because it officially rejects theories that associate skin color with righteousness or divine favor.

The Church’s teachings about the Resurrection also give us no reason to believe that race will disappear. The Resurrection restores our bodies to a perfected, immortal condition. Alma taught that “all things shall be restored to their proper and perfect frame” (Alma 40:23). The scriptures describe resurrected bodies as being immortal, free from disease, pain, and death, but they never say that God changes someone’s ethnicity or racial characteristics.

President Joseph Fielding Smith explained that the Resurrection restores the body in a perfected condition. Perfection refers to freedom from death, disease, and corruption—not to conforming everyone to one physical appearance.

In fact, the restored gospel celebrates diversity rather than eliminating it. John saw in a vision that people from “all nations, and kindreds, and people, and tongues” would stand before God (Revelation 7:9). Nothing in that description suggests that those differences will disappear in eternity. Instead, it emphasizes that God’s family includes people from every background.

Perhaps the strongest scriptural statement comes from the Book of Mormon itself:

“The Lord denieth none that come unto him, black and white, bond and free, male and female… and all are alike unto God.” (2 Nephi 26:33)

This verse does not promise that people become physically alike. Instead, it teaches that they are already equal in God’s eyes. Our value has never depended on the color of our skin.

When we think about eternal life, the scriptures focus on something far more important than appearance. They teach that our hearts, our covenants, and our relationship with Jesus Christ determine our eternal destiny. The Resurrection removes the effects of death. The Atonement of Jesus Christ makes it possible for us to become spiritually clean. Exaltation changes our nature through Christ, not our race.

So, will black people become white in heaven or after the Resurrection?

According to the doctrine of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, the answer is no. There is no official teaching that race or skin color changes in eternity. Historical statements suggesting otherwise are not part of the Church’s current doctrine and have been specifically rejected when based on theories of racial superiority or divine disfavor.

The restored gospel teaches something much more beautiful. Every person—regardless of race or ethnicity—is literally a child of God with infinite worth. Through Jesus Christ, we are invited to become pure, holy, and like our Heavenly Father. That transformation is spiritual, not racial.

In the end, heaven is not about everyone looking the same. It is about everyone becoming one in Christ while retaining the eternal identity God has given each of His children.

Gramps

Gramps,

If a person dies without knowledge of the Gospel and, as we are told, accepts it in the spirit world, and accepts the proxy work that is done for them, what resurrection will they come forth in, with what type of resurrected body? Will there be a “class” of spirits currently in the Spirit World, having accepted the Gospel there, that, having their work done during the Millennium, will receive a Celestial body during the Millennium?

Darryl

Answer

Darryl,

One of the beautiful doctrines of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is that Heavenly Father provides every one of His children a fair opportunity to receive the gospel of Jesus Christ. Because billions of people have lived and died without hearing the restored gospel, many members naturally wonder what happens to those individuals after death.

While not every detail has been revealed, LDS doctrine gives us several important principles that help answer these questions.

The starting point is understanding that the preaching of the gospel continues after death.

The Apostle Peter taught that Christ ministered to the spirits in the spirit world:

“For for this cause was the gospel preached also to them that are dead, that they might be judged according to men in the flesh, but live according to God in the spirit.” (1 Peter 4:6)

The Lord revealed much more about this work through President Joseph F. Smith in the vision now recorded as Doctrine and Covenants 138. He saw that righteous spirits continue preaching the gospel to those who died without knowledge of the truth.

“The dead who repent will be redeemed, through obedience to the ordinances of the house of God.” (Doctrine and Covenants 138:58)

This doctrine teaches that those who never received a fair opportunity in mortality are not condemned because of circumstances beyond their control.

One of the clearest revelations on this subject came when Joseph Smith saw his deceased brother Alvin in the celestial kingdom, even though Alvin had died before baptism was available to him.

The Lord explained:

“All who have died without a knowledge of this gospel, who would have received it if they had been permitted to tarry, shall be heirs of the celestial kingdom of God.” (Doctrine and Covenants 137:7)

This is a remarkable statement. It tells us that those who would have accepted the gospel in mortality are not disadvantaged because they happened to live in a different time or place.

President Dallin H. Oaks has reminded members that we should be cautious about claiming knowledge beyond what has been revealed concerning the spirit world. He taught:

“Beyond these basics, our canon of scripture contains very little about the spirit world that follows death and precedes the Final Judgment.” (Trust in the Lord)

That caution is important. We should distinguish between what has been revealed and what we reasonably infer from revealed doctrine.

So what kind of resurrection will faithful individuals who accept the gospel in the spirit world receive?

The scriptures teach that there are different degrees of glory and corresponding resurrections.

Paul wrote:

“There is one glory of the sun, and another glory of the moon, and another glory of the stars.” (1 Corinthians 15:41)

The Lord expanded on this doctrine in Doctrine and Covenants 76 and 88, explaining the celestial, terrestrial, and telestial kingdoms.

President Russell M. Nelson reaffirmed that the kind of resurrected body a person receives is connected to the laws he or she chooses to live:

“Your choices today will determine three things: where you will live throughout all eternity, the kind of body with which you will be resurrected, and those with whom you will live forever.” (Think Celestial!)

Later in the same address, President Nelson taught:

“Thus, if we unwisely choose to live telestial laws now, we are choosing to be resurrected with a telestial body.”

These statements reinforce the doctrine taught in Doctrine and Covenants 76 and 88 that there are different degrees of glory and corresponding resurrected bodies. The resurrected body a person receives corresponds to the kingdom of glory he or she is prepared to inherit.

It is also important to understand that accepting the gospel in the spirit world does not automatically place a person into either the celestial or terrestrial kingdom. The final inheritance depends on how that individual responds to the light and opportunities God gives.

Doctrine and Covenants 76 teaches that some inherit the terrestrial kingdom because they were not valiant in the testimony of Jesus:

“These are they who are honorable men of the earth, who were blinded by the craftiness of men.” (Doctrine and Covenants 76:75)

and

“These are they who are not valiant in the testimony of Jesus.” (Doctrine and Covenants 76:79)

At the same time, Doctrine and Covenants 137 teaches that those who would have accepted the gospel had they been given the opportunity in mortality can inherit the celestial kingdom.

“All who have died without a knowledge of this gospel, who would have received it if they had been permitted to tarry, shall be heirs of the celestial kingdom of God.” (Doctrine and Covenants 137:7)

Therefore, LDS doctrine does not teach that accepting the gospel in the spirit world automatically results in a terrestrial inheritance. Rather, the determining factor is the individual’s faithfulness, desires, and willingness to accept and live according to the gospel of Jesus Christ.

If an individual accepts the gospel in the spirit world, receives and accepts proxy ordinances, and ultimately qualifies for celestial glory through the grace of Jesus Christ, that person would receive a celestial resurrected body.

The next question concerns timing. Will there be people currently in the spirit world who have accepted the gospel and who will receive celestial bodies during the Millennium? The scriptures indicate that the answer is very likely yes. The resurrection of the just begins with Christ’s coming and continues during the Millennium.

The Doctrine and Covenants teaches:

“They are Christ’s, the first fruits, they who shall descend with him first, and they who are on the earth and in their graves, who are first caught up to meet him.” (Doctrine and Covenants 88:98)

Church leaders have taught that righteous spirits who accept the gospel beyond the veil continue to look forward to the completion of ordinances performed on their behalf.

President Dallin H. Oaks explained:

“The spirit-world bondage that applies to righteous converted souls is their need to await—and perhaps even be allowed to prompt—the performance of their proxy ordinances on earth so they can be baptized and enjoy the blessings of the Holy Ghost.” (Trust in the Lord)

This statement is particularly significant because it confirms that righteous spirits have accepted the gospel and are awaiting the completion of ordinances performed in temples on earth. It harmonizes beautifully with Doctrine and Covenants 138, which teaches that missionary work continues among the dead and that those who repent may be redeemed through the ordinances of the house of God.

Doctrine and Covenants 128 also teaches:

“For we without them cannot be made perfect; neither can they without us be made perfect.” (Doctrine and Covenants 128:18)

Putting these doctrines together, many Latter-day Saints understand that there are undoubtedly spirits today who have accepted the gospel in the spirit world and are awaiting the completion of ordinances on their behalf. As temple work accelerates during the Millennium, many of these individuals may participate in the ongoing First Resurrection and receive glorified celestial bodies.

However, exactly when specific individuals will be resurrected has not been revealed. President Oaks cautioned that while we know certain fundamental truths about the spirit world and the Resurrection, many details remain unrevealed.

What we do know is profoundly reassuring. Every child of God will receive a fair opportunity. Those who have never heard the gospel are not eternally disadvantaged. Through missionary work in the spirit world, temple ordinances performed by proxy, the Atonement of Jesus Christ, and the Resurrection, every person will have the opportunity to receive all that he or she is willing to accept.

According to revealed LDS doctrine, a person who dies without knowledge of the gospel, accepts it in the spirit world, receives and accepts proxy ordinances, and remains faithful to those covenants may inherit the celestial kingdom. If they inherit celestial glory, they will receive a celestial resurrected body. It is also consistent with revealed doctrine that many such individuals will come forth in the resurrection of the just during the Millennium as the great work of redemption for the dead continues on both sides of the veil.

Gramps

Gramps,

I had a miscarriage at about two months. It wasn’t formed at all, but it looked like a giant liver. I don’t know if it had a heartbeat, but it was growing, so I don’t know what that actually means. What the heck? Question. If it was growing, that means it was alive. It’s an aborted fetus. Maybe if so, will I see it in the next life?

Joyce

Answer

Joyce.

For many people, a miscarriage brings not only grief but also uncertainty. There is often a deep longing to know what happened to that child and whether the relationship will continue beyond this life.

According to the teachings of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, there is reason for hope, even though not every detail has been revealed.

Latter-day Saints believe that every person is a beloved spirit child of Heavenly Father. Before coming to earth, we lived with Him as spirits. Mortality is only one step in our eternal journey. Because of this belief, many members find comfort in knowing that a child lost through miscarriage is not lost to God.

At the same time, the Church has not received a revelation that answers every question about miscarriage. The Lord has not revealed exactly when a spirit enters a developing body or how every circumstance surrounding miscarriage will be resolved. However, He has revealed enough for us to trust in His love and mercy.

One important gospel truth is that little children are precious in the sight of God and are redeemed through Jesus Christ.

The Book of Mormon teaches:

“Little children are alive in Christ.” (Moroni 8:22)

Abinadi similarly declared:

“Little children also have eternal life.” (Mosiah 15:25)

These scriptures provide assurance that children who die before reaching accountability are safe in Christ and recipients of His grace.

The Prophet Joseph Smith taught a remarkable doctrine concerning children who die before reaching maturity. President Joseph F. Smith later recounted:

“Joseph Smith taught the doctrine that the infant child that was laid away in death would come up in the resurrection as a child; and, pointing to the mother of a lifeless child, he said to her: ‘You will have the joy, the pleasure, and satisfaction of nurturing this child, after its resurrection, until it reaches the full stature of its spirit.’” (The Salvation of LIttle Children)

While this statement specifically addresses infants and young children rather than miscarriage, many parents have found comfort in the principle that family relationships continue and that opportunities lost in mortality may be restored through the Lord’s plan.

President Joseph F. Smith, who buried several of his own children, taught:

“With little children who are taken away in infancy and innocence before they have reached the years of accountability … they are redeemed by the blood of Christ.” (The Salvation of Little Children)

His teachings emphasize that children who die before accountability are completely covered by the Atonement of Jesus Christ.

When discussing stillborn children, President Joseph Fielding Smith acknowledged that revelation has not provided all the answers. However, he offered a hopeful personal opinion:

“There is no information given by revelation in regard to the status of stillborn children. However, I will express my personal opinion that we should have hope that these little ones will receive a resurrection and then belong to us. I cannot help feeling that this will be the case.” (Our Stillborn Baby)

Although President Smith carefully identified this as his personal opinion rather than revealed doctrine, many Latter-day Saints find comfort in his hopeful perspective.

The Church has also published an article discussing what is known and unknown regarding children who die very young. It notes that President Joseph F. Smith found comfort in the doctrine that children who die young will be resurrected and raised by their righteous parents after the Resurrection. “The Salvation of Little Children Who Die: What We Do and Don’t Know)

Perhaps one of the most comforting teachings from the Prophet Joseph Smith is his promise that faithful Saints will ultimately recover every righteous loss:

“All your losses will be made up to you in the resurrection, provided you continue faithful. By the vision of the Almighty I have seen it.” (The Joseph Smith Papers)

That promise does not explain exactly how every situation will unfold, but it does testify that Heavenly Father is aware of every sorrow and has the power to restore what mortality takes away.

The foundation of that hope is Jesus Christ. Because of His Resurrection, death is not permanent. Families can continue beyond the grave. Through His Atonement, every injustice can be corrected, every wound healed, and every righteous blessing fulfilled.

Will you see a child in the next life that you miscarried?

The most accurate answer according to LDS doctrine is that we do not have a specific revelation that fully answers that question. However, we do have powerful truths that point toward hope. We know your child is known and loved by Heavenly Father. We know little children are alive in Christ. We know families are central to God’s eternal plan. We know that every righteous blessing will be restored. And we know that Jesus Christ has overcome death.

For that reason, many faithful Latter-day Saints look forward with hope to a future day when unanswered questions will be resolved and losses will be healed. While mortality leaves some uncertainty, the gospel invites us to trust in a loving Heavenly Father who remembers every child and every parent.

Until that day, we can rest in the promise that nothing precious is forgotten by God and that through Jesus Christ, every faithful hope can ultimately be fulfilled.

Gramps

Gramps,

Pets and the hereafter, and our association with them, are a sensitive thing for my soul. With all due respect to family and friends, I have deep love and bonds with my pets. Primarily Dogs. I, and others, have publicly stated that “I would rather be with my pets than people.”  They are loyal, their love is unconditional, they are protective, and they live their lives with an extreme sense of sovereignty and dedication. If Heaven doesn’t allow pets, I’m not excited to reside there!  Family, along with my furry friends, would be my Heavenly home. Why would a loving Father deny his children the joy of separation from loved creatures?

Michael

Answer

Michael,

One of the most tender questions many Latter-day Saints ask is, “Will I see my pets again after this life?” Anyone who has loved a faithful dog, a gentle cat, a horse, or another cherished animal knows that these companions often become part of the family. When they pass away, the separation can be deeply painful.

Gramps

Hey Gramps,

I know that baptism is the only thing required for entry into the celestial kingdom. I also know that sealing to a spouse is required to reach the highest degree of the celestial kingdom. But what about the second degree? Is an endowment required to reach the second degree, and what is the difference b/w 1st, 2nd, and 3rd degrees?

Thanks for the work you do!

Aaron

Answer

Aaron,

If you’ve spent time around Latter-day Saint teachings, you’ve probably heard people casually talk about “levels” within the Celestial Kingdom—sometimes described as first, second, and third. It’s a natural question to ask: What do I need to do to reach the second level? The interesting thing is that the answer isn’t as straightforward as many expect.

In fact, LDS doctrine doesn’t lay out a clearly defined set of requirements for what people call the “second level” of the Celestial Kingdom. That might feel a little unsatisfying at first, but it actually opens the door to a deeper and more meaningful understanding of how eternal progression works.

The idea of different degrees of glory comes primarily from Doctrine and Covenants section 76, a revelation given to Joseph Smith and Sidney Rigdon. In that vision, they describe three main kingdoms of glory: celestial, terrestrial, and telestial. A key passage explains who inherits the Celestial Kingdom:

“They are they who received the testimony of Jesus, and believed on his name and were baptized… and received the Holy Spirit by the laying on of the hands” (Doctrine & Covenants 76:51–52)

That gives a foundational picture: Celestial glory is for those who truly accept and follow Jesus Christ through covenant discipleship.

Later, another revelation adds an important detail:

“In the celestial glory there are three heavens or degrees” 
“In order to obtain the highest, a man must enter into this order of the priesthood [new and everlasting covenant of marriage]” (Doctrine & Covenants 131:1-2)

Notice what’s happening here. The scriptures clearly define the requirement for the highest degree, often referred to as exaltation. But they don’t spell out detailed requirements for the other degrees. That silence is actually meaningful—it keeps the focus on the fullness of what God offers.

Another important passage reinforces how central eternal marriage is to exaltation:

“If a man marry a wife by my word… it shall be of full force when they are out of the world… and shall inherit thrones, kingdoms… a continuation of the seeds forever and ever” (Doctrine & Covenants 132:19)

This is one of the clearest scriptural descriptions of what distinguishes the highest degree: eternal family relationships and ongoing increase.

When people refer to the “second level,” they’re usually talking about individuals who receive Celestial glory but do not obtain the fullness of exaltation. In simple terms, they are still in the highest kingdom—still experiencing incredible glory—but without certain blessings tied specifically to eternal marriage.

At the same time, scripture consistently reminds us that salvation and glory are rooted in Jesus Christ’s grace, not just our checklist of actions. For example:

“For behold, this is my work and my glory—to bring to pass the immortality and eternal life of man” (Pearl of Great Price, Moses 1:39)

That verse shifts the perspective. God’s goal isn’t to sort people into tiers—it’s to bring them as far as they are willing to go.

And that connects with another powerful New Testament teaching:

“In my Father’s house are many mansions” (John 14:2)

Latter-day Saints often see this as consistent with the idea of varying degrees of glory—different eternal outcomes suited to different levels of acceptance and readiness.

One more scripture that adds depth to this discussion is:

“That same sociality which exists among us here will exist among us there, only it will be coupled with eternal glory” (Doctrine & Covenants 130:2)

This reinforces that relationships—and who we are becoming—matter deeply in eternity. It’s not just about where we end up, but what kind of life we’re prepared to live there.

Taken together, these scriptures paint a pretty consistent picture. They clearly outline the requirements for entering the Celestial Kingdom and for receiving exaltation, but they leave the in-between details less defined. That’s likely intentional. The emphasis is on inviting us upward, not encouraging us to aim for a middle tier.

So while people may talk about a “second level,” the restored gospel doesn’t give a checklist for it. Instead, it invites us to accept all the ordinances, make and keep covenants, and become the kind of people who can receive everything God is willing to give.

And honestly, that’s a much bigger and more hopeful vision than just trying to figure out the minimum requirement.

Gramps

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Gramps,

In the afterlife, does an addiction to alcohol or drugs go with them? I was taught, and thought this to be true.  Giving an extra reason for keeping the WOW.  We would be blessed not to have that craving.

AA

Answer

AA,

In Latter-day Saint (LDS) theology, questions about addiction and the afterlife are best understood through the doctrine of the soul, the nature of the spirit world, and the healing power of Jesus Christ. When someone asks whether addictions to alcohol, drugs, or tobacco follow a person into the next life, the answer is nuanced: the physical dependency does not continue, but the underlying spiritual and emotional patterns may persist—at least temporarily—until they are healed through Christ.

To understand why, it helps to begin with how LDS theology defines the human soul. Doctrine and Covenants 88:15 teaches:

The spirit and the body are the soul of man.

This means that many aspects of our mortal experience—including physical cravings and chemical dependencies—are tied to the body. Addiction to substances like alcohol, nicotine, or drugs involves brain chemistry and physical processes. When the body dies, those physical systems stop functioning.

LDS belief holds that at death, the spirit separates from the body and enters the spirit world. Without a physical body, there is no biological mechanism to sustain addiction in its physical form. In that sense, the bodily craving itself does not follow a person into the afterlife.

However, LDS scripture teaches that we carry our character and dispositions with us. Alma 34:34 explains:

That same spirit which doth possess your bodies at the time that ye go out of this life… will have power to possess your body in that eternal world.

This suggests continuity of identity. We do not instantly become completely different people when we die. The habits of thought, emotional wounds, and spiritual tendencies that contributed to addiction may still be present. For example, if someone turned to substances to cope with pain, anxiety, or trauma, those underlying struggles may still need healing.

That might sound discouraging at first—but LDS doctrine quickly pivots to something deeply hopeful.

The spirit world is described as a place of continued learning, repentance, and growth. The Apostle Peter taught that the gospel is preached to those who have died:

For for this cause was the gospel preached also to them that are dead…

This aligns with modern LDS teaching that individuals in the spirit world can continue progressing and receive the blessings of the gospel.

Church leaders have emphasized that many mortal limitations—physical, mental, and emotional—are temporary. President Russell M. Nelson taught:

The Lord has repeatedly taught that He will restore all that is lost.
(The Correct Name of the Church, October 2018 General Conference)

While not speaking specifically about addiction, the principle applies: what is broken in mortality can be made whole through Jesus Christ.

Similarly, Elder Dale G. Renlund explained:

Through the Atonement of Jesus Christ, all that is unfair about life can be made right.
(Infuriating Unfairness, April 2021 General Conference)

Addiction often involves elements of unfairness—genetics, environment, trauma, and mental health challenges. LDS theology recognizes that accountability is real, but it is also perfectly balanced by Christ’s understanding and mercy.

Elder Jeffrey R. Holland has spoken compassionately about mental and emotional struggles, which often overlap with addiction:

“Broken minds can be healed just the way broken bones and broken hearts are healed.”
(“Like a Broken Vessel,” October 2013 General Conference)

This healing doesn’t always happen fully in mortality—but LDS doctrine teaches it will happen through Christ, whether in this life or the next.

Another key doctrine is the resurrection. Eventually, all people will be resurrected, with body and spirit reunited in a perfected, immortal form. Alma 11:43 teaches:

The spirit and the body shall be reunited again in its perfect form… even there shall not so much as a hair of their heads be lost.

This “perfect form” implies that the physical weaknesses and dependencies associated with addiction will not return. The resurrected body is not subject to disease, decay, or chemical addiction.

However, LDS theology also emphasizes that who we become matters. President Dallin H. Oaks taught:

The Final Judgment is not just an evaluation of a sum total of good and evil acts… but an acknowledgment of the final effect of our acts and thoughts—what we have become.
(The Challenge to Become, October 2000 General Conference)

That’s why the process of healing from addiction—whether in this life or the next—is so important. It’s not just about stopping a behavior; it’s about becoming whole.

So, does addiction follow someone into the afterlife?

From an LDS perspective:

• The physical addiction ends with the body.
• The spiritual and emotional roots may remain, but they can be healed.
• The Atonement of Jesus Christ provides a complete path to recovery and wholeness, even beyond this life.

This doctrine offers both realism and hope. It acknowledges that struggles don’t magically disappear at death—but it also affirms that no struggle is permanent.

For those worried about loved ones, this teaching can be deeply comforting. God understands every factor involved in addiction, and He provides ongoing opportunities for growth and healing.

And for anyone currently struggling, it sends a powerful message: your efforts matter. Your fight matters. And through Jesus Christ, full healing—body and spirit—is not just possible, but promised.

Gramps

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