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Are there wards and stakes in the Spirit World?

Are there wards and stakes in the Spirit World?

Question   Gramps, Hello.  I'd like to know if there are wards and stakes in the spiritual world. Kind regards, J Klaus   Answer   Dear J, Much of God's work is organizing His children in such a way that they can carry out His will in order. One of the...

Is the Gift of the Holy Ghost still needed after one dies?

Is the Gift of the Holy Ghost still needed after one dies?

Question   Dear Gramps, Among all of the proxy ordinances we perform in the temple, we also perform proxy confirmations.  Is the Gift of the Holy Ghost still needed after one dies?  I’ve been told everyone who passes to the other side has instantaneous spiritual...

Why aren’t seniors called to leadership positions?

Why aren’t seniors called to leadership positions?

Question   Gramps, Has it become a norm that once a person reaches 55 or 60 years of age they no longer are called to any position of leadership? In my ward and stake, as well as surrounding stakes, there is not a single leadership position held by anyone older...

Is it okay to have my college apartment dedicated?

Is it okay to have my college apartment dedicated?

Question   Gramps, I know that dedicating a home is aimed more towards homes and families, but is it acceptable to ask for my college apartment to be dedicated in a way that's not so specific to the residents? Only to invite the spirit and keep it a place of...

Will I be reunited with a baby I miscarried?

Will I be reunited with a baby I miscarried?

Question   Dear Gramps, I had a miscarriage 15 years ago.  I have been wondering, will I be reunited with this little unborn soul in the next life? Nola   Answer   Dear Nola, First, I am sorry for the experience that you have had to go through. ...

What is the true story behind Joseph Smith and Masons?

What is the true story behind Joseph Smith and Masons?

Question   Gramps, What is the true story behind Joseph Smith becoming a Mason? I once found that he was encouraged to join because he was told he and the early Saints would be protected by the Masons, but found it to be false; then left it.  Later, I read that...

Does fate play a part in our lives?

Does fate play a part in our lives?

Question   Dear Gramps, I have been thinking about this for a while. Obviously, we don't believe in fate because that would take away our agency. But we do believe we were intentionally born at a certain time into certain circumstances to experience certain...

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