Are there special blessings to being born in the covenant?

Question

Gramps,

Are there special blessings or privileges associated with being born into the covenant? Does it also hold more responsibilities?

Kelly

Answer

Kelly,

At the heart of the doctrine of being born in the covenant is the understanding of covenants themselves. In The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, a covenant is a sacred agreement between God and His children. The most significant of these is the eternal marriage covenant, which is made in the temple. This covenant is conditional upon the faithfulness of the participants, meaning that if either partner fails to uphold their end of the agreement, the covenant can be broken, and the marriage is no longer valid after death.

However, the sealing of children to their parents is distinct. This sealing is unconditional and is believed to remain in effect regardless of the actions of the children. As Joseph Smith stated, “That the eternal sealings of faithful parents and the divine promises made to them for valiant service in the Cause of Truth, would save not only themselves, but likewise their posterity.” This means that children born to parents who are sealed in the temple inherit certain spiritual blessings and protections, even if they stray from the path of righteousness.

Being born in the covenant comes with numerous spiritual advantages. First and foremost, it provides a sense of belonging and identity within the framework of the gospel. Children born in the covenant are often taught from a young age about their divine heritage and the expectations that come with it. This upbringing can instill a strong sense of purpose and direction in their lives.

Moreover, the doctrine suggests that those born in the covenant have a divine safety net. Joseph Smith’s quote emphasizes that even if children wander from the faith, they are not abandoned. The “eye of the Shepherd is upon them,” and they will eventually feel the pull of divine providence, leading them back to the fold. This belief can be a source of comfort for parents and families, as it reinforces the idea that their efforts in raising their children in the gospel will ultimately bear fruit, even if it takes time.

While the blessings of being born in the covenant are significant, they also come with responsibilities. Children born in the covenant are expected to uphold the teachings of the gospel and to live in a manner that reflects their divine heritage. This includes following the commandments, participating in church activities, and striving for personal righteousness.

Additionally, there is an understanding that being born in the covenant does not exempt individuals from the consequences of their choices. As Gramps explained in a previous Q&A, “They will have to pay their debt to justice; they will suffer for their sins; and may tread a thorny path.” This means that while the sealing to faithful parents provides a spiritual safety net, it does not eliminate the need for personal accountability. Each individual must still navigate their own path and make choices that align with the teachings of the gospel.

One of the most profound questions surrounding the doctrine of being born in the covenant is how it aligns with the principles of divine justice. The scriptures teach that God is just, merciful, and kind. This duality can sometimes seem contradictory, especially when considering the fate of those who stray from the path of righteousness.

In the context of being born in the covenant, divine justice is served through the process of repentance and accountability. As Gramps has noted in the past, those who stray may not come forth in the first resurrection and may face consequences for their actions, but ultimately, they will have the opportunity to return to their heavenly parents. This process ensures that justice is served while still allowing for the possibility of mercy and redemption.

Repentance plays a crucial role in reconciling the concepts of justice and mercy. The doctrine teaches that all individuals, regardless of their background, have the opportunity to repent and return to God. This is particularly significant for those born in the covenant, as their divine heritage provides them with a unique understanding of the gospel and the tools necessary for repentance.

Joseph Smith’s statement emphasizes the importance of prayer and faith in the process of bringing wayward children back to the fold. He encourages parents to “hold on to them with your faith” and to “hope on, trust on, till you see the salvation of God.”  This highlights the belief that while individuals may stray, the love and support of their families, combined with their own efforts to repent, can lead them back to a place of righteousness.

Gramps