Are some lives predetermined or foreordained by the Lord?
Question Hello Gramps, My husband and I often disagree on the topic of free will vs pre-destination. He believes that certain people's lives and events are predetermined by the Lord. I believe that we can be foreordained for something, but that just like...
If Joseph Smith used a hat and a stone, why the need for the gold plates?
Question Gramps, If all Joseph Smith needed was a stone and his hat to write the Book of Mormon, why the need for gold plates for which a murder was committed? Poki Answer Hello Poki, I presume the "murder" to which you are referring is Nephi's...
Why does the Prophet rely on apologetic sites to speak for the Church?
Question Gramps, Why does the Prophet not answer direct questions relative to the current issues facing the church? He instead relies on apologetic sites, such as this on, to respond for the church. Is he a prophet in name only? Poki Answer Poki,...
Can those in legal same sex marriages obtain a temple recommend?
Question Dear Gramps, I read in a previous answer and it was mentioned in Sunday School today that members who are attracted to the same sex but remain chaste and don't act on their urges, the same as heterosexuals, can hold a temple recommend. What about...
Will the gospel be taken to the Middle East before the 2nd coming?
Question Gramps, Will the gospel be taken to the middle eastern countries before the 2nd Coming?Janet Answer Janet, Great question. It truly makes you wonder with all that is going on in the Middle East today. Even recently, the news has been...
What if I have a health issue that can limit my ability to fast?
Question Hi Gramps, I've always learned from your answers and think you can help me with a concern of mine. For health reasons I am unable to miss even one meal. A counselor in my ward Relief Society presidency told me that fasting doesn't necessarily mean...
What happens to our debts during the millenium?
Question Dear Gramps, I've had a question that has bothered me for some time. When the Savior returns for His second coming, what is going to happen to all of the outstanding debt that is owed by one party to another here in this life? Because I assume our...
Does the release from a presiding office mean a loss of keys or authority?
Question Gramps, Does the release from a presiding office mean the loss of keys or the suspension of authority? Grant Answer Grant, When a person is released from a calling that has keys associated with it, they no longer hold those keys. The...
How did the lineage of Cain come through the flood?
Question Gramps, How did the lineage of Cain come through the flood? Lynn Answer Hi Lynn, We find that information in Abraham 1:23-24: "The land of Egypt being first discovered by a woman, who was the daughter of Ham, and the daughter of Egyptus,...
Can God call men (like he did Lehi) to become messengers of repentance?
Question Dear Gramps, My Grandson asks this question. Because we have Prophets/Apostles today we don't get messengers any more. In reference to this question;talking about Jeremiah/Ezekiel giving warning Jerusalem to repent. "Lehi" a plain man not prophet who...
What do the scriptures or prophets say about leaving inheritance to children?
Question Dear Gramps. What do the scriptures and prophets say about parents leaving inheritance to their children? We had a meeting with my siblings discussing dividing the properties that our late father left us. Some are opposed to individual ownership and...
Should we pray for food in a public setting?
Question Gramps, Should we pray over food in a public setting such as restaurants? Austin Answer Austin, We should always have a prayer in our hearts. As we read in Alma 34:27: "Yea, and when you do not cry unto the Lord, let your hearts be full,...
Why the name “The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints?
Question Dear Gramps, Why did the Lord give the name of the Church as "The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints?" Seems to me it has caused a great deal of confusion among non-members. Would not the Church have been better served if the Lord had just...
Do we really need to bless the donuts?
Question Hey Gramps!I feel that it's unnecessary after Church activities to bless refreshments "that they will nourish and strengthen our bodies" when typically those refreshments are food items like brownies and donuts.I'm uncomfortable praying for this (I...
What mission advice can you give me?
Question Gramps, I will soon be serving a mission in the Roseville, California English speaking mission on August 6th. Other than the classic , "forget yourself and go to work", "the mission is the best two years 'for' your life" and all other stereotypical...
If I created my own world, would I need my own Savior?
Question Gramps, If I achieve the level to create my own world's with my husband will I have to have my own Savior or does Christ fulfill that requirement? Kara Answer Hi Kara, I certainly understand where the curiosity around such questions...
Why does God seem so vengeful in the Old Testament?
Question Gramps, This year members of the Church are studying the Old Testament. In the Old Testament we see how Jehovah is very vengeful and seems to some to not be a loving God. In the New Testament we see Jesus Christ (who is Jehovah) and how loving and kind...
Should I replace studying scriptures with talks from modern day leaders?
Question Dear Gramps,It seems like many people study the actual books: Book of Mormon, Bible, or both everyday. However, we are taught the importance of studying living prophets and apostles, and that their word is considered scripture as well. Sometimes, I...
If we do not follow the commandments, can we still pray for things?
Question Hi Gramps, I have two questions... If someone's not following the word of wisdom for example, could still pray and ask on Him for the things needed. Life in general things like comfort for a family member going through something? If I wanted to finish...
How can I learn to love my enemies?
Question Dear Gramps, I have been struggling with this one for a long time. I don't have the ability to love my enemies, those who want to hurt me or my family and country. I want to obey the Lord but its not in my heart to love people who want to hurt me or...
What exact words are used to baptize someone?
Question What exact words are used to baptize someone? Cox Answer Dear Cox, What a great question! The answer comes from the governing documents of the Church (the Doctrine and Covenants) - specifically, in section 20 (known as the Articles and...
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