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What happens if I can’t sustain a church leader?

What happens if I can’t sustain a church leader?

Question   Gramps, We have ward conference coming up soon. I cannot sustain our Relief Society President  but I sustain the rest of the Relief Society Presidency. What happens when I don't raise my hand to sustain her?Belinda    Answer   Dear Belinda,...

Did we choose or agree to our earthly circumstances?

Did we choose or agree to our earthly circumstances?

Question   Gramps, Did we choose or agree to our earthly circumstances?C Brady    Answer   C Brady. The concept of whether or not we were able to choose/agree to our earthly circumstances is highly debated by members of the Church.  The reason this...

What does it mean by the sins will be upon the parents?

What does it mean by the sins will be upon the parents?

Question   Gramps, I read some time back that if the fathers have not taught their children properly that the sins of the children were on their heads and not the children. For the children are not aware of the sin, but are only doing what was taught them. So if...

What movies can we watch?

What movies can we watch?

Question   Hey there Gramps, I have a question for you if that's alright. So I'm a convert to the church and I remember one of the first things I learned in seminary was that we don't watch rated "R" movies. Which seems legit, given the raised amounts of...

Who helped Noah build the ark?

Who helped Noah build the ark?

Question   Gramps, I want to know who helped Noah build the ark? Josefa   Answer   Dear Josefa, The Book of Jasher (a medieval text that repeats Jewish traditions that have built up over the years around the stories in the books of Moses) says it took...

Am I a failure as a missionary?

Am I a failure as a missionary?

Question   Dear Gramps,I am serving a full time mission in England and have been working hard out here. Sadly I haven't had a baptism out here and I am starting to feel like I am a failure.. Other missionaries are seeing things happen and I have friends in other...

Why was Christ’s atonement so gruesome?

Why was Christ’s atonement so gruesome?

Question   Gramps, What is your opinion of why Christ's atonement had to be so gruesome?  I think of Abraham's showing his obedience to God asking him to sacrifice Isaac and God not requiring him to complete the sacrifice. Richard   Answer   Dear...

What will happen to my own salvation?

What will happen to my own salvation?

Question   Gramps, My husband and I were sealed in the temple 20 years ago and have 5 children. We have been active in the church this whole time. We have been experiencing marital issues for the past several years during which he has broken those covenants made...

Am I condemned for living off of Social Security?

Am I condemned for living off of Social Security?

Question Gramps, I just read your answer to Robert's question about retiring and living off of Social Security. He quoted President Kimball's October 1977 General Conference address that “No true Latter-day Saint, while physically or emotionally able will voluntarily...

Why does there have to be 3 in the Godhead?

Why does there have to be 3 in the Godhead?

Question Gramps, Why does there have to be three in the Godhead or why is there three in the Godhead? Thanks, Jesus   Answer Dear Jesus, By having three members in the Godhead, we find God exemplifying the law of witnesses that he gave to His children (see...

Does unrighteous dominion apply even in the work place?

Does unrighteous dominion apply even in the work place?

Question Gramps, I would like to prove to my boss that unrighteous dominion applies to the work place as well as in the home. He is a Bishop and a temple officiator as well. But the two worlds are not the same. I need to show him that it applies to everything. Jon...

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