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How long should a Father’s blessing be?

How long should a Father’s blessing be?

Question   Gramps, I’m a convert of 6 years and married into a member family with 5 kids. When I perform back to school blessings they are specific and long and pour out many blessings upon my children. My wife has mentioned to me several times that my blessings...

Why aren’t prophets giving us specific signs to watch for?

Why aren’t prophets giving us specific signs to watch for?

Question   I was just wondering why there isn’t a modern prophet like Samuel the Lamanite that gives us specific signs to watch for and timelines? Thanks. Burt   Answer   Burt, This seems to be a question that quite a few people have in the Church,...

How can my husband learn more about the Priesthood?

How can my husband learn more about the Priesthood?

Question   Gramps, Hi, I’m wondering if you could recommend a basic book on the priesthood. My husband and I have been convert members for many years. My husband has been on the fence for the past few years (after coming home from serving in Afghanistan for a...

How can I help my new convert wife strengthen her testimony?

How can I help my new convert wife strengthen her testimony?

Question   Gramps, I got married earlier this month to a recent convert of about 5 years from Catholicism.  I have found she has been reading anti Mormon stuff that has challenged her testimony of the church. She has a small testimony but I feel that I need to...

Why have a special temple tour just for LGBTQ+ leaders?

Why have a special temple tour just for LGBTQ+ leaders?

Question   Gramps, Our temple is going to have a open house before the dedication. The local group directing this is planning a special guest tour just for LGBTQ leaders and LGBTQ opinion leaders. I am struggling with this. Why not have a special tour for...

Are church members today Masons?

Are church members today Masons?

Question   Gramps, Are members today free masons? Gloria   Answer   Gloria, Yes, there are.  Many of them, in fact. For many years Latter-day Saints were blackballed (literally) from membership in Utah lodges.  But that was not so elsewhere.  Today...

What does it mean to part the veil and can I do it?

What does it mean to part the veil and can I do it?

Question   Gramps, What does it mean to part the veil? And how can I part the veil? Is it more than prayer? Is it as simple (but complex) as striving to fulfill all your covenants? What happens when the veil is parted? Does it allude to having heavens help? Is it...

How do we explain to a person that America is now Zion?

How do we explain to a person that America is now Zion?

Question   Gramps, When are the Gentiles and the Jews going to be  gathered?  Is it soon or are they already being gathered?  In Isaiah it says that Zion will be gathered in Jerusalem.  If Jerusalem is Zion how is America chosen to be the new Zion?  How do we...

How can I love a very dysfunctional and toxic family?

How can I love a very dysfunctional and toxic family?

Question   Gramps, I come from a very dysfunctional and toxic family.  I’m sincerely trying to love them and be forgiving but I honestly would rather keep them at a distance.  Thinking about having to be together forever with them sounds terrible.  Any advice?...

What percentage of obedience do I need for eternal salvation?

What percentage of obedience do I need for eternal salvation?

Question   Dear Gramps, President Thomas S. Monson teaches that it is easier to obey commandments 100 percent of the time than 98 percent of the time.  I seem only to be able to manage no better than 50/50. Are you Gramps able to obey commandments 100 percent of...

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