Is incense against the Word of Wisdom?
Question Gramps, I was wondering if the use of incense sticks is considered smoking and therefore against the Word of Wisdom? Julia Answer Julia, This is an interesting question. Elder Boyd K. Packer said, "Members write in asking if this thing or...
Is chai tea against the Word of Wisdom?
Question Dearest Gramps, Is partaking of chai tea against the Word of Wisdom? Lisa Answer Hi Lisa, According to this Wikipedia article, chai tea is made by putting various herbs and spices in black tea. It's therefore just a type of regular...
What are the differences in agency we used in pre-earth life and now?
Question Gramps, It seems to me we had agency during our pre earth life. What is the difference between the agency we exercised in the pre earth life and our agency here on earth? Kari Answer Dear Keri, It's hard to know for sure since we don't...
How do I keep the Sabbath Day holy and honor my parents?
Question Gramps, Sometimes on Sundays, my parents ask me and my siblings to do chores and sometimes we go get food even if we have enough food. So I am just confused. Although I do all of my chores on Saturday, I am just not sure what to do. I was thinking...
If I don’t hear all of the Sacrament prayer, should I partake of it?
Question Hey Gramps, I looked for the answer on the site but couldn't find it. As an Aaronic Priesthood kid I was always told that if someone didn't hear the whole prayer I shouldn't take the sacrament. Through the years I've received varying answers and just...
Why did God make Joseph Smith marry so many women?
Question Dear Gramps, I've read some of your articles regarding polygamy in the church. They answered some of my questions but I've read some stuff recently that the Church has released and I can't shake this heavy feeling weighing on me. I've been praying...
Will I be stuck with my ex husband forever?
Question Gramps, Unfortunately I am in a situation I never wanted. I was sealed in the temple but am now divorced. I have 2 young children. What is the church' stance on having the sealing revoked? I have heard it can only be done if you want to remarry? Will...
How do you respond to an Atheist who only wants to insult?
Question Gramps, How should we respond to an atheist who insults religion and the moral standards of God? Tracie Answer Tracie, The best way to respond against revilers is usually the same way Jesus responded to the corrupt King Herod, who...
How can God sit in Heaven and witness so much abuse?
Question Dear Gramps, With all of the horrific abuse heaped upon animals and children by others, and the unspeakable pain suffered by them as a result, how can God sit in heaven and watch it all and not be moved with righteous indignation? Is this what we have...
If I get an answer to a prayer why doesn’t life go that direction?
Question Gramps, Sir, thank you for reading. The short of it is that I felt prompted suddenly to go to the temple and pray about a wonderful daughter of God. When I asked whether or not I should seek to marry her, I felt a growing anxiousness in me be swallowed by a...
Does the interpretation of dreams still exist on earth?
Question Gramps, Is the gift of interpretation of dreams still on the earth (like Joseph)? Is it as dispersed and common as things such as the gift of tongues, prophecy, etc? Are there specifically people called with the ability? I've a had a recurrring dream that...
Should I stay home with my child or go to work?
Question Hello Gramps! I would really appreciate your insight. I stay home with my 2-year-old daughter. My family of 4 lives with my aunt. We have quite a bit of debt and cannot afford a home of our own along with all of our debt payments. My husband will be...
In Luke, why was the Unjust Steward commended?
Question Gramps, Why is the unjust steward commended for his behavior in Luke 16? Lou Answer The parable of the Unjust Steward is among the most difficult parables to understand. For those in need of a refresher, it’s about an employee (i.e., the steward),...
What do Mormons believe about respecting animals?
Question Gramps, In my experience it seems that a lot of Mormons don't respect animals. When I was at BYU my roommates didn't respect them. Once a cat got into the apartment and before I could gently guide the cat outside a roommate of mine grabbed the cat by the...
Is God both our Father and Mother in Heaven?
Question Gramps, Forgive me for this question. I have many speculate that our Father in Heaven is our Mother in Heaven too. Can you please clarify this for me? I personally would rather have two separate parents. Thank you Marco Answer Marco, I think the most...
What are the third set of scriptures spoken of by Elder Neal A. Maxwell?
Question Gramps, What are we to understand from these words spoken by Elder Maxwell in his talk "God Will Yet Reveal" when he said, "We would not even know of the impending third witness for Christ except through the precious Book of Mormon, the second witness for...
Will we still have our tattoos when we are resurrected?
Question Gramps, My brother is a tattoo artist. He does it for a living. My mom doesn't like it though and therefore approaches him constantly about it. My brother's reaction is, "Mom don't worry, when we're resurrected, we're not going to have them anymore." I don't...
Does the Church not want thinkers?
Question Dear Gramps, I joined the church in 98, raised Evangelical, so Baptist, Methodist, Pentecostal, I feel like when I question something the answer is always the same . Pray and ask. I do and my answers are ask again. I feel like the church doesn't want...
I’m too ashamed to talk to my Bishop, but how can I stop my skinpicking?
Question Dear Gramps, I have been struggling with skinpicking (Dermatillomania) since 10 years. I feel so horrible about my picking that I have really low self-esteem. I know our bodies are temples and therefore holy, but I can't stop the urge to pick. Please...
Is saying “Oh my Lord” using His name in vain?
Question Gramps, Does saying "good Lord' or "Oh my Lord" count as using the Lord's name in vain? Marie Answer Marie, I believe it does. I avoid saying such things and have taught my children not to say them. What does it mean "to take the Lord's...
Did the Nephites and Lamanites have access to the gold plates?
Question Gramps, Is it true that the Nephites and Lamanites did not have access to the writings on the gold plates? The writings of their prophets? It is my understanding that they used only the brass plates for scripture references. Y Jordan Answer...
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