Can those with tattoos do temple ordinances?
Question Gramps, I have many good friends who have tattoos and they are non-members, but I know that some of them would like to join the church, they are really great people and I have always had that concern because once I heard a member of the church who had...
Did Nephi live to see Jesus?
Question Gramps, Did Nephi live to meet Jesus?Jerry Answer Dear Jerry, I can see where your confusion comes from. The name of Nephi is the Book of Mormon version of John Smith. It seems like you can't read many pages without seeing it pop up. One...
Why isn’t coffee allowed but energy drinks are?
Question Gramps, I have a hard time understanding the reasoning behind coffee and tea not being allowed. I have a friend who left the church because of this. I just don't get how coffee isn't allowed but energy drinks and other things are. Sam Answer...
What if I forget that I’m fasting and eat something?
Question Gramps, If I've opened a fast, what are the consequences if I forget that I'm fasting and then eat something? Chris Answer Hi Chris, Let's take a moment and consider the purposes of fasting. First, we are showing devotion to our Father in...
Why can we not kneel to pray in the temple?
Question Gramps, Why can we not kneel to pray in the temple? Patty Answer Dear Patty, You can kneel in the temple, but it should be done at an altar designed for this purpose. They generally have a short padded "stoop" for you to rest your knees...
Was the Holy Ghost present while Jesus Christ was on the earth?
Question Gramps, Was the Holy Ghost present while Christ was on the earth?Steve Answer Steve, Thank you for your question. The simple answer to your question is yes. Please stay with me as I go into more detail to show some examples. ...
Why is it required to learn the issues related to the endowment ceremony?
Question Gramps, Why is it required to learn the issues related to the ceremony of endowment if eventually some of us might be unable to remember? Does it mean we will not be allowed to pass the angels? Thank you Gramps. Luis Answer Luis,In the...
Will not paying tithing bar us from obtaining exaltation?
Question Gramps, I have been a member for years, in that time I haven't gone a month without hearing a talk on tithing. The scripture from Malachi is always used. I've read all of he questions and answers on the site in regarding tithing. I get the impression...
Why do temple recommend questions not address following court orders?
Question Gramps, I have struggled for years over this question. I have discussed it with priesthood leaders and even written Thomas S. Monson on the subject and have never once received even a close answer so I hope you can help me understand. Tempe interview...
How do I balance my marriage and church callings?
Question HI Gramps. I have a calling in my ward as assistant scout master and it requires a lot of time and dedication. My wife however gets mad or upset if I have a meeting to go to and she wants time to spend with me. I want to accomplish the...
Haven’t we already met God? Why do we have to meet him again?
Question Gramps, In the book of Alma, Amulek says that "this life is the time for men to prepare to meet God". I always thought that we lived with God in the pre-mortal life. If so, haven't we met him already? Why did he send us away just so we could prepare...
Why are some children born into privilege and others into misery?
Question Gramps, Is there a reason that some souls are chosen to be raised in affluent homes that can afford a high-level education and to parents that genuinely care about the child, and some into poverty, abuse, and suffering from the moment they exit the...
Why is the Sacrament order different in the Book of Mormon?
Question Gramps, In the New Testament Jesus blessed the bread then broke it. Yet in 3 Nephi; He broke and then blessed it. Do you know why? Marco Answer Thank you for your question. Let's examine the two different accounts. In Matthew 26:26 it...
I’m uncomfortable around my father. What do I do?
Question Gramps, I don't know what to do and I don't want to be judgmental but I do want to help my family. I'm worried about my dad and the influence he's brought to me and this family. When I was around 16, he introduced me to pornography, masturbation, and...
Does the church seek to convert those in same sex marriages?
Question Dear Gramps, As marriage equality becomes more common, will the church try to evangelize to these families and what might that look like? Theoretically, a happily married lesbian couple raising children wants to join the church. Can they simply become...
How can the Book of Mormon have identical quotes from the Bible?
Question Dear Gramps, We enjoy your website. Really sorry to hear that you are no longer physically with us, but I guess we can assume you are still here in spirit. My question: There are over 120 verses in the Book of Mormon that appear to exactly copy...
What is meant by secret combinations?
Question Gramps. What is meant by secret combinations? Marlene Answer Marlene, Secret combinations, as described in the Book of Mormon, refer to groups or individuals who engage in clandestine activities to achieve personal gain or exert power...
Should I end my relationship with a Mormon woman?
Question Gramps, Thanks for taking my question. The short story is that I am an atheist, and carrying on a complicated but loving relationship with a believing Mormon woman. While I believe none of the claims of the church (and am honest about it), somehow I...
Where is the line drawn before marriage?
Question Gramps, You might be getting ready for a response about the birds and the bees, but that is not what I am asking about today. That, to me, is a very clear line. But, my question is about other aspects of marriage that might be off limits to those who...
What is the meaning and importance of Personal Priesthood Interviews?
Question Gramps, Please, help me understand the meaning and importance of personal priesthood interviews. Eduardo Answer Dear Eduardo, I don't know if you are a quorum president giving these interviews or a quorum member participating so I'll try...
What are the responsibilities of the Beehive President?
Question Gramps, I have recently been called to be the Young Women's Beehive president but I am only 12. I don't really know how I am supposed to call for counselors and what my responsibilities are or what I have to do. I am stressed and I really don't want to...
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