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I have feelings for a young man who plans to go on a mission for the Mormon Church. I’m torn between not interfering in his desires and making a play for him. What should I do?

I have feelings for a young man who plans to go on a mission for the Mormon Church. I’m torn between not interfering in his desires and making a play for him. What should I do?

Hi Gramps, I’ve been struggling with this problem for a long time now. A friend of mine introduced me to the Mormon Church two months ago, and since then we’ve become much better friends. I’ve sort of developed feelings for him. He is about to go on a mission in like...

Is Jesus Christ the Savior of all the worlds?

Is Jesus Christ the Savior of all the worlds?

Question   Hi Gramps, My question is about the preexistence. We lived in the preexistence before we came to earth with many other spirits. The spirits who are now waiting to acquire a body of flesh and bone, can they go to another world other than earth to...

What is your view on the definition of a cult?

What is your view on the definition of a cult?

Gramps, I have come across a passage that stated that the Mormon Church is a cult. After doing much research of the word “cult” it appeared that most definitions are contrary to one another. I would like to have your view on this matter. Sivuyile, from South Africa...

My friend is disturbed by the impression that he does not have a testimony of the truthfulness of the gospel as taught in the Mormon Church, but states that he knows that it is true by logic.

My friend is disturbed by the impression that he does not have a testimony of the truthfulness of the gospel as taught in the Mormon Church, but states that he knows that it is true by logic.

Dear Gramps: I have a friend who was “born” in the Mormon Church – having joined before he was 8 years. He fears that he does not have a testimony of the restored gospel but knows “through logic that it is true.” He is now keeping himself aloof from the Church and...

What happens to those who do not believe in Christ?

What happens to those who do not believe in Christ?

Gramps, I am trying to find any articles in the LDS gospel library that would answer the question what happens to those who don’t believe in Christ in mortality and should we not pray for their well being if they are a Buddhist. Mark,  South Bend, Indiana Dear Mark,...

Should we kneel when we pray?

Should we kneel when we pray?

Dear Gramps, I have questions about kneeling while praying. Our family prays together regularly in a reverent manner but we seldom kneel. As we are converts this isn’t something we did in the past and we are unsure when to kneel although we hear reference to kneeling...

What is the etymology of the word forgiveness?

What is the etymology of the word forgiveness?

Gramps, What is the etymology of the word forgiveness? Sherry, from Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada   Dear Sherry, The word forgive comes from the following sources— Saxon–forgivan. Gothic–fragiban. German–vergeben.Netherlands–vergeeven. Danish–forgiver. The...

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