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Does God allow people to visit other worlds?

Does God allow people to visit other worlds?

Question   Gramps, I know God has created worlds without number. I would imagine each world has a plan of salvation for them. But we all have our free agency. Would God allow a people from one world to visit another? John   Answer   John, We have our...

Will abuse in my past disqualify me from baptism?

Will abuse in my past disqualify me from baptism?

Question   Gramps, In preparation for my upcoming baptism, my Elders reviewed the baptismal questions with me. When we got to question 4 (about prison, abortion, and homosexuality) they expressed that I could answer the question to them but if the question was...

Was Enos ever baptized?

Was Enos ever baptized?

Question   Gramps, We have a friend who is taking the discussions. His assignment last week was to read Enos. He had an interesting question. He asked if Enos was ever baptized. Kim   Answer   Kim, We don't have an explicit account of Enos getting...

Can local leaders set policy?

Can local leaders set policy?

Question   Gramps, If the leadership in Salt Lake City have not given guidelines on a given topic, can a local unit make policy? For instance, old Primary guidelines precluded snacks for the Primary children, but the newest guidelines say nothing. My local...

What is the difference in the healing of the sick?

What is the difference in the healing of the sick?

Question   Gramps, I wonder what the difference is if someone with the priesthood prays for someone who is sick and they get healed compared to a preacher in another church who prays for the sick who gets healed. Nicko   Answer   Nicko, That is a great...

How does one overcome lustful thoughts?

How does one overcome lustful thoughts?

Question   Dear Gramps, I have a lusting problem. Fortunately, I don't have a pornography problem. I have tried and tried and tried for over 30 years now to overcome looking with lust at immodestly dressed women I see in public. I am no closer now to overcoming...

Is it possible to be sealed to just my mother?

Is it possible to be sealed to just my mother?

Question   Dear Gramps, This is my first time asking someone questions like this other than the Lord of course. My mother shortly got converted after I did. She was happy, she is a single mother of three children including me. She had asked our bishop at the time...

Is there any value in physical beauty?

Is there any value in physical beauty?

Question   Dear Gramps, Of what value is great physical beauty if the inside is what's important?  Why did the Lord even create great physical beauty when He only looks upon and judges us according to the heart?  He must have had a reason or else He would not...

Am I sinning by not going to church due to medical issues?

Am I sinning by not going to church due to medical issues?

Question   Gramps, I'm LDS.  I'm very happy to be and so is my husband.  We have been married for 32 years and our  marriage is sealed but lately we have been very sick  I lost my legs.  I can not walk anymore and my husband has a bad problem with his back.   He...

Is justice ever double paid?

Is justice ever double paid?

Question   Gramps, I just read your answer to the justice and mercy conundrum. As you cited in your answer about justice and mercy, the commonly told story about a loan owed and a third party stepping in to pay the loan then granting forgiveness of the loan to...

What happens to children who stray when they die?

What happens to children who stray when they die?

Question   Gramps, My children were sealed in the temple to us and most of them have strayed from the gospel and are not living its teachings. One of them is gay and living a gay lifestyle. What will happen to them when they go to the other side? J   Answer...

Is it really possible to be washed clean of sin?

Is it really possible to be washed clean of sin?

Question   Hey Gramps, Thanks for answering my other questions. I've been wondering about repentance. I have a sinful habit that I've been struggling to get rid of the past little while. I keep doing it again and again. Each time I do, I cry and confess it to...

Do we all go to the same spirit world when we die?

Do we all go to the same spirit world when we die?

Question   Gramps, In the History of the Church, Volume 5, pp 424-425, it is recorded that Joseph Smith said the word "paradise" in Luke 23:43 is a mistranslation. He, however, did not change/correct this in the Inspired Version. He also says, "Hades, shaole,...

Is it a sin to go to a casino?

Is it a sin to go to a casino?

Question   Gramps, Is it a sin to go a casino and play the slot machines for entertainment when your bills and tithes have been paid? Frankie   Answer   Frankie, To willingly and knowingly break a commandment of God is by definition a sin. This is what...

Were we created with another spirit of the opposite sex?

Were we created with another spirit of the opposite sex?

Question   Gramps, I have read and heard from a couple of people that when God created us spiritually we were created with another spirit of the opposite sex. So for example when God created me (me being a male) he created a female.  The scripture they use is...

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