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Is Not Fasting a Sin?

Is Not Fasting a Sin?

I know the law of fasting is a law that applies to all the church members. But at the same time, it is not required for entering the temple or to have Church callings. How serious is not fasting in the Church?  Could someone be called as Stake President or a Bishop...

Modifying Temple Clothing

Modifying Temple Clothing

Can temple clothing be modified with a piece of velcro to help hold the garment on? Kerry ______________ Kerry, I'm not sure, though it seems adjusting the size to fit more properly would be the first step to attempt, whether the garment is too loose or too tight....

Is being underweight a sin?

Is being underweight a sin?

Question   Hi Gramps, I am just going to ask straight up, is being underweight a sin? I think knowing would help me do what I need to do to get better. Thanks. Niki   Answer   Niki, When reading the Word of Wisdom, which is referred to as "a principle...

Rumors

Rumors

When a Bishop has listened to rumors that are very serious and accepted them as truth but I know better, what course of action should I pursue? We have tried to talk to him but he will not listen. What should we do? It is destroying a young man's reputation. Pegann...

Year Wait for Ordinances

Year Wait for Ordinances

I believe that the reason one has to wait a year to do temple work for the dead is: They are being preached to in the spirit world. When the year is up the deceased have enough knowledge to either reject or accept their temple work. What is your take on this? Joyce...

Is it possible to trace family history back to Adam?

Is it possible to trace family history back to Adam?

Question   Gramps, I have heard some members of the Church claiming that they have done all their genealogy back to Adam and Eve. Is it possible to trace someone's genealogy that far? Delia   Answer   Dear Delia, I defer to the expertise of Robert C....

Endowments for Children Who Have Died

Endowments for Children Who Have Died

Why don’t children who die before the age of 8 need to receive their endowment? John ________________ John, Thank you so much for your question. You may or may not know that we, as members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, believe that the age of...

Attending Funerals in Other Churches

Attending Funerals in Other Churches

When my father died several years ago in WI, a LDS friend of several decades explained kindly to us that he could not attend the funeral in our (Protestant) church as LDS members were prohibited from attending services in other churches. Is this church policy? Or...

Divorce and Children

Divorce and Children

What happens to people, by people I mean my father, who cause a divorce when there is small children involved? Rose ______________ Rose, Any decision we make we are held accountable before God for the consequences of our decisions, whether they be choices which lead...

D&C 132:26

D&C 132:26

Question   I am trying to understand D&C 132:26. What does it mean to violate this section and then to be turned over to the buffetings of Satan? I am confused. Does this mean someone who has been disfellowshipped for affairs is going to be buffeted by Satan...

What is your view of single sisters adopting?

What is your view of single sisters adopting?

Question   Gramps, What is your view of single sisters adopting children and rearing them in the gospel who might not have had a chance otherwise?  This would be for those women who never had the chance of a temple sealing. Amy     Answer   Amy,...

Child Support

Child Support

I am paying my monthly payments on child support as I should. But when I wasn't working it got piled up. So when I went to court, we made an agreement, to pay the back pay in small payments with the monthly payments on top of that. So basically, I am paying what is...

Will we see our Heavenly Mother?

Will we see our Heavenly Mother?

Question   Gramps, When we go to celestial kingdom, will we be able to see Heavenly Mother, as the plan of salvation was based on family? Any insight on Heavenly Mother? Robert   Answer   Robert, When we enter the Celestial kingdom I am reminded of the...

Do angels have wings?

Do angels have wings?

Question   Gramps, Do angels have wings? Penny   Answer   Penny, In Doctrine and Covenants 129:1-3 we read: 1 There are two kinds of beings in heaven, namely:Angels, who are resurrected personages, having bodies of flesh and bones—   2 For...

Law of Chastity

Law of Chastity

So my girlfriend and I have been planning to get married in a few short months and were previously not living the law of chastity and just a couple weeks ago I confessed to my bishop and am now going thru the repentance process but today I found out that my girlfriend...

Morally Challenged

Morally Challenged

I was excommunicated 7 years ago after I voluntarily confessed to my husband and bishop to having had multiple affairs.I repented and was rebaptized a year later. Things went well for a while, but 2 years after I had another affair, which I ended within a year. I have...

The Knowledge of Christ

The Knowledge of Christ

In D&C 93 we learn of Christ receiving grace for grace, not having a fullness at first. Do we know when he gained that fullness? Or in other words, when he realized he was the Christ, Jehovah, the Lord Omnipotent? Justin _____________ Justin, We are not provided...

Question about Name

Question about Name

Can someone help me with this?   I have been very anxious over this. When we go through the temple and get our name, what happens when we can't remember that name? I have gone to the temple many times during the years and have had to ask what my name is and now I am...

Children Suffering

Children Suffering

Hey Gramps, I am an active member of the LDS church and I'm looking for answers/comfort regarding some of the atrocities I've learned about effecting large groups of children. Specifically, a recent TED talk by Sunitha Krishnan exposed the systemic selling of children...

Babies During the Millenium

Babies During the Millenium

I have recently had a hard time with having a miscarriage. Will new children be brought into the world even after the second coming? I have heard that there will be no temptation during the millennium. If this is true would there still be children? Allyson ___________...

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