If all males are sons of God, why does John 3:16 say Jesus is the only Son of God?
Hi! I'm a bit confused about something: I've been told that we have always been sons of God, since we were spiritually born of Him. But I read John 3:16 the other day and it says Jesus is the only Son of God. Could you explain this to me? Thanks! Confused Brendan,...
When does our second Estate end?
Gramps, When does our second Estate end? Bob, from Idaho Dear Bob, We read that They who keep their second estate shall have glory added upon their heads for ever and ever (Abraham 3:26). I would imagine that the second estate lasts until that occurs. Thus the second...
What does it mean that Satan was cursed for “doing that which was done on other worlds?”
Gramps, In the Garden of Eden Satan was cursed for "doing that which was done on other worlds." Would you elaborate please. Owen, from Canada Dear Owen, First, we must understand that Satan was a liar from the beginning (D&C 93:25). If he did do that which was...
How are those that have been cremated etc. resurrected?
Gramps, When we are resurrected do we return to our grave and, so to speak, pick up our old bones and become an immortal being. If so how about those cremated or burned up or, well you get my drift. Thank You. Bruce Dear Bruce, Alma, in teaching his son, Coritanton...
Would the analogy pounding nails into a board them pulling them out leaving a hole be correct in how we view sin and repentance?
Gramps, Many years ago some speakers in the church used an example of the effects of sinning (and the difficulty of repenting): pounding nails into a board, then pulling them out. The point? A hole remains, indicating permanent scaring. I understand that President...
We all have talents that God gave to us. If we do something bad, does He take them away?
Waz up bro? I've been wondering something lately... We all have talents that God gave to us. If we do something bad, does He take them away? Because I've sinned and I've repented and stuff, and I do the same sins over and over again. I'm stopping my bad habits, but I...
When is it proper to say in the name of “Thy Son” Jesus Christ?
Dear Gramps, When saying prayer, is it proper to say "in the name of 'Thy Son' Jesus Christ," or should it just be in the name of Jesus Christ? Also when some people are bearing their testimonies they often use in the name of "Thy Son" Jesus Christ at the end when...
Why doesn’t the Lord answer my prayers if I have prayed and fasted many days and nights for almost a year?
Dear Gramps, My family has been struggling with financial problems for a while, due to my dad being unemployed. I have fasted and prayed many days and nights along with the rest of my family and nothing has happened for almost a year, Why isn't the Lord answering my...
How can I build my confidence up to pray again?
Gramps, I haven't prayed for months. I'm kind of scared to. I know in my heart that I want to pray but I'm scared. How can I build my confidence up to pray again? How can God love us and really know us? He has a zillion other kids in the world. and after all that I've...
Why was polygamy allowed back in the “old days?”
Dear Gramps, Non-members I talk to often ask about the plural marriages performed back in the "old days." Usually they ask about the "why," why was there such a command given and why was it discontinued. Up until now I never thought about asking anyone that knows...
What does the term “patriarch of the home” mean?
Hi Gramps, A little while ago in High Priests lesson time, we spoke about families. It was mentioned in general terms about the "patriarch of the home" and I mentioned that this title was something that could only be used when a man had been sealed to his wife in the...
Could you explain D&C 2:2and what it means by turning the hearts?
Gramps, Could you please explain what is meant by the scripture in D&C 2:2 "And he shall plant in the hearts of the children the promises made to the fathers, and the hearts of the children shall turn to their fathers? When I was in seminary, I was told that this...
Is it possible to progress from one kingdom to another?
Gramps, A newly returned missionary said that his mission presisdent told him that there was no place in the scriptures or Church doctrine that said one couldn't progress from on kingdom to another. It was always my understanding that whatever kingdom you went to that...
How do I convince my friend of the truth when his thoughts are that reasonable doubt can be determined by evidences not feelings?
Dear Gramps, How would you respond to this feedback that I receive from a good friend who is "Christian." "I would be interested in discussing at your leisure with you Mormonism as we have briefly in the past. Christianity and Mormonism, as most religions, are...
Is outer darkness reserved for apostate LDS?
Gramps, Is outer darkness reserved for apostate LDS? The discussion here is the definition of "knowing the Holy Ghost." Graham, from British Columbia Dear Graham, The term "outer darkness" refers to the place to where Satan will be banished. Those who must suffer with...
Could you explain D&C 133:26-35? Where are the north countries mentioned?
Hi Gramps, Gramps, I was hoping you would explain your understanding of D&C 133:26-35. Such as in verse 26, "They who are in the north countries," (where are the north countries). And "They shall smite the rocks and ice shall flow down at their presence." Could...
How will those living during the millenium be tested if Satan is bound?
Dear Gramps, Since one of the purposes of our coming to earth is to be tested to see whether we will choose right or wrong how will those who live during the millenium be tested if Satan is bound and there is no temptation to test them? Kristen, from California Dear...
Can you explain Psalms 8:4-5? Are we ranked lower than the angels?
Hello Gramps... My question to you has to do with the scripture in Psalms 8:4-5. "What is man, that thou art mindful of him? and the son of man, that thou visiteth him? For thou hast made him a little lower than the angels, and hast crowned him with glory and honour."...
Will I lose my exaltation if I marry a non member even if I stay a loyal member?
Question Dear Gramps, I am not a teen anymore, but I do have a question. After divorcing a member who was excommunicated, I met someone who has proposed to me. He is not a member of the church and I have a friend that insists on telling me that it is a sin and...
Do Mormons believe that if you are not baptized a Mormon that you won’t go to heaven?
Gramps, I heard that Mormons think that if you are not baptized a Mormon than you won't be able to go to heaven. Is that true? Also, I heard that you think if you are sealed in the temple, then you will becomes gods/goddesses in the afterlife????? Ashley, from Nevada...
If intelligences are finite in number, how did we exist prior to the birth through our heavenly parents?
Gramps If intelligences are finite in number, therefore all the same age, how did we exist prior to the birth through our heavenly parents? In what kind of state, a little ball of light, a human form of some type? Lynda, from Minnesota Dear Lynda, Perhaps we could...
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