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How can an illegal alien qualify for a temple recommend?

How can an illegal alien qualify for a temple recommend?

Question   Gramps, How can an illegal alien qualify for a temple recommend if they are not "honest in their dealings with their fellowmen?"  They do not "obey, honor and sustain the law;" and are not "honest and true" as directed in the recommend questions and...

Do I have to be with my parents in the eternities?

Do I have to be with my parents in the eternities?

Question   Gramps, I left the church a few years ago. I'm uncertain what is true, but just in case this is I don't want to end up with my parents in the next life. They both have remarried and been sealed to their partners, but my mom has just told me she doesn't...

Will I be asked to leave my calling?

Will I be asked to leave my calling?

Question   Gramps, I am the president of the Deacons Quorum.   I recently had a slip up and watched some immodest pictures of women.  None of them were naked but I feel terrible.   I'm going to talk to my bishop.   Do you think i will be asked to leave my...

Is divorce the right thing to do over money?

Is divorce the right thing to do over money?

Question   Gramps, My husband and I have been married for 18 years, we were sealed 3 and 1/2 years ago. My husband has an addiction problem, it’s like he’s addicted to having an addiction. For 18 years we have barely scraped by, robbing peter to pay Paul, I have...

Will we be of different races in the hereafter?

Will we be of different races in the hereafter?

Question   Gramps, When we are resurrected and after the winding down of the judgment will there still be different races and nationalities or will everyone be one race? What is the purpose of different races since we all are the children of Heavenly Father? If...

Will I ever get to have a baby?

Will I ever get to have a baby?

Question   Gramps, Will I ever get to have a baby? I am in my 60s. Do I ever get to have babies--descendants. I don't mean adopting or spirit children. I mean getting big and pregnant and wearing really cool maternity clothes and looking really beautiful like...

How many temples were built in Jerusalem?

How many temples were built in Jerusalem?

Question   Gramps, How many temples were built in Jerusalem and when? Elizabeth   Answer   Dear Elizabeth, The bible tells us the first temple was the Temple of Solomon built around 957 BC. This was to replace the portable tabernacle that they had used...

Should I respond to comments on Anti-Mormon websites?

Should I respond to comments on Anti-Mormon websites?

Question   Dear Gramps, A few days ago I ran onto a website set up to “save the Mormons,” and the video was trying to question whether or not President Hinckley was a “Prophet, Seer, and Revelator.” I don’t understand why people from a bunch of different faiths...

What does it mean to turn your back to the priesthood?

What does it mean to turn your back to the priesthood?

Question   What does it mean to "turn your back to the priesthood" (a HC said this when interviewing me for the MP)?  I've read D&C 84, but it isn't clear on the "oath and covenant," or what would specifically constitute turning my back? Michael   Answer...

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