What's the point in receiving a patriarchal blessing?

Question

Gramps,

Is it even worth getting a patriarchal blessing? What’s the point of them anyway?

Stan

Answer

Stan,

A patriarchal blessing is a sacred ordinance in which a patriarch, a priesthood holder ordained to this office, provides a personal blessing to an individual. This blessing typically includes a declaration of lineage, identifying the recipient’s tribe within the House of Israel, and offers counsel, promises, and insights tailored to the individual’s life and spiritual journey. As noted in the Church’s teachings, “A patriarchal blessing is a sacred guideline of counsel, promises, and information from the Lord.”

The process of receiving a patriarchal blessing usually involves a personal interview with a bishop to ensure worthiness, followed by an appointment with a stake patriarch. This blessing is often given during a pivotal time in a young member’s life, when they are making significant life decisions regarding education, missions, and personal goals.

One of the most significant aspects of a patriarchal blessing is the declaration of lineage. This declaration connects the recipient to the ancient covenant made with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, affirming their place within the House of Israel. Understanding one’s lineage is crucial, as it provides insight into the responsibilities and blessings associated with that heritage.

Each tribe of Israel carries unique blessings and responsibilities. For instance, those from the tribe of Ephraim are often called to bear the priesthood and share the gospel, while those from other tribes may have different roles in the Lord’s work. This understanding can empower individuals to fulfill their divine missions and recognize their potential within the framework of God’s plan.

Patriarchal blessings serve as a compass for navigating life’s challenges and decisions. They provide personalized counsel that can help individuals make choices aligned with their divine purpose. As members read and ponder their blessings, they often find insights that resonate with their current circumstances, guiding them toward righteous paths. Elder Marvin J. Ashton emphasized the importance of setting personal goals based on one’s blessing, stating, “The direction in which we are moving is more important than where we are at the moment.”

By regularly reviewing their blessings, members can draw closer to Heavenly Father and gain clarity on their life’s mission. This practice not only fosters spiritual growth but also reinforces the idea that individuals are not alone in their struggles; they have divine guidance available to them.

Life is fraught with challenges, and during difficult times, a patriarchal blessing can provide immense comfort. The words contained within the blessing serve as a reminder of God’s love and promises. As President Thomas S. Monson once said, “Your patriarchal blessing is your passport to peace in this life.” This peace can be particularly vital during moments of doubt, grief, or uncertainty.

Members are encouraged to read their blessings frequently, especially during trials, to remind themselves of the divine potential and promises that await them. The blessings can act as a source of strength, helping individuals to persevere through adversity and maintain faith in God’s plan.

President Russell M. Nelson taught:

Do you see the importance of your patriarchal blessing? … It is precious. It is personal scripture to you. It declares your special lineage. It reminds you of your linkage with the past. And it will help you realize your future potential. Literally, you can lay claim upon the Lord for fulfillment of those blessings through your faithfulness.

While patriarchal blessings provide guidance and comfort in this life, their significance extends into the eternities. The promises contained within these blessings are not limited to mortal experiences; they often encompass eternal truths and potential. As noted in Church teachings, “A patriarchal blessing is eternal, and its promises may extend into the eternities.” This perspective encourages members to view their blessings as part of a larger divine plan that transcends mortal existence.

For instance, many blessings include promises of resurrection and eternal life, contingent upon the individual’s faithfulness. The assurance that one will come forth in the first resurrection is a powerful reminder of the eternal nature of God’s promises. As members strive to live righteously, they can find hope in the knowledge that their efforts will be rewarded in the hereafter.

A crucial aspect of patriarchal blessings is the principle of agency. While blessings may contain promises, they are not guarantees; their fulfillment is contingent upon the individual’s choices and faithfulness. As I explained in another Q&A, “A patriarchal blessing is a moment where Heavenly Father has a chance to speak directly to you about some of the more important things that he wants to make a part of your life.” This shows the importance of personal responsibility in realizing the blessings promised.

Members are encouraged to actively engage with their blessings, setting goals and striving to live by the counsel provided. This proactive approach not only enhances spiritual growth but also reinforces the idea that individuals have the power to shape their destinies through righteous choices.