Sealing to father or stepfather? What do I do?
Question Gramps, My parents divorced when I was 7. A few years later, both married other people. My mom and stepfather joined the church. My stepfather died of cancer 3 months after his baptism and my mom chose to be sealed to him a year later. My dad passed...
Does each earth have multiple heavens?
Question Gramps, While reading in Moses Chapter 1 I noticed it states: 37 And the Lord God spake unto Moses, saying: The heavens, they are many, and they cannot be numbered unto man; but they are numbered unto me, for they are mine. 38 And as one earth shall...
What is non consensual sin?
Question Gramps, At our recent General Conference Elder Cook used the term non consensual sin. I’m very confused by this. What is non consensual sin. If it’s non consensual like abuse or rape surely that is not a sin on the victim. Did he just get a bit...
What does “infinite” atonement really mean?
Question Dear Gramps, If Jesus Christ has paid the price for my sins through an "infinite" atonement, then is it unjust for me to have to also pay a civil penalty for a sin in this life? For example, if I get a speeding ticket, doesn't Christ's infinite...
How do our church leaders get so much done?
Question Gramps, How do our church leaders get so much done? It seems like they do not sleep. Peter Answer Dear Peter, Let’s think about their job for a minute. Virtually non stop travel, speeches, pastoral counseling, media relations, dealing...
If one doesn’t live worthily during life isn’t sealing them by proxy all a waste of time?
Question Gramps, We understand that anyone who inherits a kingdom other than the Celestial Kingdom will not be privileged to have an eternal companion and those eternal relationships, yet we seal everyone in the temple. I always thought that this was the...
Is it okay to go camping with someone while dating?
Question Gramps, I'm a young adult and was wondering if it's okay to go camping overnight with someone while dating them. We wouldn't sleep together but near each other and it's just the two of us, no one else. Is this inappropriate or breaking the law of...
How can I fulfill the commandment to do genealogy when I am so busy?
Question Dear Gramps, I am a woman of middle age, have a very busy and demanding family and two jobs. I also teach in the Mormon Church. We have been commanded to do genealogy and temple work for our kindred dead. I love genealogy, I love the work but it seems...
My friend claims that Mormons rejoice in Adam’s transgression. Is he right?
Question Dear Gramps, My friend say Mormon rejoice in Adam’s transgression and my friend say only the ungodly people will rejoice in sinful things, so is he right? John Answer Dear John, You must not be concerned about attempts of those who do not...
Why didn’t the 12 disciples in the Americas write anything?
Question Gramps, The 12 apostles in Jerusalem wrote many epistles to the saints. The 12 disciples in America never wrote anything (at least that we know of). Any explanation would be helpful. Kane Answer Kane, There really wasn't a reason to...
Why are some minors who are sexually assaulted disciplined by the Church?
Question Hi Gramps! I was wondering what your thoughts were regarding church discipline for minors, specifically victims of sexual assault? In some cases, victims of abuse and sexual assault of all ages are barred from taking the sacrament and subjected to a...
In which things should a woman in the Mormon Church be obedient to a man?
Question Dear Gramps, I have been a member of the Mormon Church for a few years now. I had a discussion with a friend that asked me a question and I didn’t know exactly how to answer. I hope you can help me. In which things should a woman be obedient to a man?...
Does the Mormon Church have a position on when the spirit enters the body?
Question Gramps, Does the church believe the spirit enters the body at conception? I've read that science says life begins 18 days after. I have a friend who miscarried at about 6-8 weeks. Would the spirit of that embryo be given to her in the next life? ...
Can one be baptized and receive a temple recommend if drinking coffee prescribed by a doctor?
Question Gramps, An investigator had a health concern and she was prescribed by her doctor to drink coffee with her medicines at least once a day. Is she allowed to be baptized and receive a temple recommend in the future without giving up coffee? Or will she...
How is the ordinance of Calling and Election and Second Comforter done?
Question Gramps, I have read about the ordinance of Calling and Election, and Second Comforter - the what and why's of this. But I have never found the "hows". How is this done? Are you recommended by your priesthood leader? Is this something you ask for? Is it...
Coming from an investigator, what is the official teaching of the Church regarding homosexuality?
Question Gramps, How you answer this question will determine whether I move forward with my conversion process or stop it. What is the OFFICIAL teaching of the church in regard to homosexuality? Does the church support, condone, accept the practices of...
Does God have a sense of humor?
Question Dear Gramps, Does God have a sense of humor? Sebastian Answer Dear Sebastian, To attempt to answer that question, it would seem appropriate to first come to a consensus of what humor is. Let me try a little development on that point. In...
Should we always agree with what the Prophet says or should we pray about it?
Question Dear Gramps, Should you always agree with what a prophet says automatically or should you pray about it? I heard that Brigham Young said don’t take my word for it, pray about it. I do understand that he can speak as a prophet and as a man, but how do...
Is there any symbolism in the fact that Nephi reports that his father dwelt in a tent?
Question Dear Gramps, The first book of Nephi mentions numerous times about Lehi dwelling in a tent. Is there any symbolism of this? Kyle Answer Dear Kyle, Lehi was a rich man. Not only did he live in Jerusalem, but he had a house out in the...
How can I feel the Spirit again?
Question Dear gramps, For some reason I haven't really been able to feel the spirit anymore. And I really haven't for a couple of years. I feel so lost and confused and keep doubting my faith. What do I do? Ella Answer Hi Ella, The Spirit is the...
Did the Savior Himself preach to the spirits in prison, as mentioned in 1 Peter 3:18-20, or did He send others in His behalf?
Question Gramps, I was listening to a wonderful set of talks on CD called “Our Savior” from a lecture series at BYU last year. One of the lecturers made a statement that Jesus did not actually preach to the spirits in spirit prison after his crucifixion; but he...
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