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Difficult in Receiving Revelation

Difficult in Receiving Revelation

Dear Gramps, I was reading in church history how difficult it was for President Spencer W. Kimball to get the 1978 revelation on the priesthood. He spent months in the upper rooms of the Salt Lake Temple, pondering and praying upon the matter before he felt he had an...

Being Offended

Being Offended

We had a lesson in Relief Society about the Word of Wisdom. One sister made a comment that if you keep the word of wisdom you will avoid disease. To me, sitting there in my power chair with multiple sclerosis, that was a very uncomfortable moment. I have to go back,...

Why teach the gospel in Spirit Prison?

Why teach the gospel in Spirit Prison?

Question   Gramps, Why teach gospel in spirit prison? Everyone was taught the gospel in pre-earth life so they already know it and memory will return after death. Dan   Answer   Dan, Although, our spirits were taught the gospel as spirits with our...

Husband’s permission for baptism

Husband’s permission for baptism

Dear Gramps, I first came across the Book of Mormon 3 months ago and it has completely changed my life. I have a strong testimony and believe the Church of Jesus Christ of the Latter-day Saints to be the one true church. My husband however, is completely opposed to my...

Abusive Father

Abusive Father

My father is older and nearing the time that he will probably soon die. He never really learned the gospel but was actually baptised and even went to the temple. As I have been taking care of him, I have had the missionaries visit him but have now learned sins that he...

Missionary Work

Missionary Work

Gramps, I have a boyfriend who is considering going on a mission soon. I am afraid a great deal about what is going to happen but the most bothersome thing about it is what if he changes? What's the probability of him completely changing and falling for another woman...

Jesus Christ

Jesus Christ

All of the prophets, including the Old Testament prophets, according to Jacob in the Book of Mormon testified of Christ. How come only the Book of Mormon prophets were given His name? Was it because they would not have crucified Him? Thank you. T-Rex _________________...

The Telestial Kingdom

The Telestial Kingdom

Dear Gramps, I've heard it said in the Church that those men and women who live together without marriage are living a "Telestial" law. Does this mean that in the final resurrection, those men and women who inherit the Telestial kingdom will be able to co-habitate...

Book of Joseph

Book of Joseph

Joseph Smith has translated the Book of Joseph of Egypt. Why has it not been published? Dan ________________ Dear Dan, You start with a strong assertion that the "Book of Joseph" was translated. If such is the case, I will be greatly edified if you sent me your...

Is the story of Joseph Smith’s last dream true?

Is the story of Joseph Smith’s last dream true?

Question   Gramps, I've recently read about the last dream of Joseph Smith and I found it amazing. Nevertheless, I wonder if it really was true. Is there any document or study that supports such a story about that vision? Please, I really admire Joseph's life and...

Messiah ben Joseph

Messiah ben Joseph

Who is or what role does Messiah ben Joseph play in the last days? Thank you. Tom _______________ Tom, Messiah ben Joseph is part of the Jewish tradition. I will try to summarize it but if really want more details you would need to ask someone more expert in such...

When did Jesus Christ enter his mortal body?

When did Jesus Christ enter his mortal body?

I read in 3 Nephi 1:13 that the voice of Jesus told Nephi that the Lord would be born the next day. Does this mean the Saviour's spirit being entered into his infant mortal body that very night? Or would it have been earlier in Mary's pregnancy? Thanks. Cliff...

Satan and his decisions

Satan and his decisions

Dear Gramps, First of all I would like to thank you for taking the time to answer these questions. Many of your replies have helped me gain a greater understanding of various topics, which have proved useful whilst teaching my Sunday school class. I would like to ask...

Mid Singles/YSA

Mid Singles/YSA

Hello Gramps, I am a 27 year old divorced LDS woman. I have been divorced for 3 years and I have just graduated from nursing school. I tried attending YSA activities but I felt very out of place due to the fact that most of the people are between 18-21 and are in a...

Atonement

Atonement

Dear Gramps, If a church member lives the majority of their life in a 'lukewarm' fashion (not doing anything real bad, yet not being very spiritually valiant either) will it do that person any good to change their ways for the better since the majority of their life...

Son of  Cain and Bigfoot?  What’s the story behind this?

Son of Cain and Bigfoot? What’s the story behind this?

Question Gramps, In "Miracle of Forgiveness" a story of an early church member riding on horseback to church encounters an individual who meets the description of Cain the son of Adam and Bigfoot. Can you shed any light or thoughts on this?  Thanks in advance. Reu...

Smoking

Smoking

My husband has gone back to smoking after we were sealed in the temple. Just the other day he was upset at me for being upset at his smoking and said “My health is the only good reason I should stop smoking.” How do I come back to him and help him see again the list...

Millenial Question

Millenial Question

Shalom Gramps, You state the following:  " In 1 Cor. 15:50 Apostle Paul revealed that “Flesh and Blood cannot INHERIT the Kingdom of God” – likewise, Jesus declared in Matt. 25:34 that the living SHEEP Saints on His right hand should “Come and INHERIT the Kingdom”...

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