Young teenager falling away

Young teenager falling away

Dear Gramps As a young teenager, trying to find her own testimony, my daughter was badly and publically embarrassed and upset by her youth leaders and several of the youth. The trauma of the upset sent her into Church inactivity and now, in her early 20s, she no...
Age of Accountability

Age of Accountability

I’ve heard that those who die before the age of accountability do so because they are so perfect they don’t need the experience of mortal life. As most people die before the age of accountabiity and many people in the Millenium grow up without sin there...
Sexual relations within marriage

Sexual relations within marriage

Hi Gramps I was abused as a child and then married to a porn addict. Now I’m free from both situations but am very unclear on what healthy,married sexual relations should be. Is there anything from the brethren stating any clear guidelines? Surely just because...
I found God somewhere else

I found God somewhere else

Hi Gramps, I left home for college three years ago, taking up a religious studies major. My family is one of strong faith in the LDS church, and were concerned when I chose not to go on a mission. They were patient with my faith struggles because of my diligent search...
Proxy baptisms

Proxy baptisms

Gramps, What’s going to happen to deceased people who we cannot perform temple work for? Being that we cannot trace their names that far back or simply records for them don’t exist? And even when the 2nd coming occurs there would still be names for whom we...
Temple Marriage Attendance

Temple Marriage Attendance

My wife’s brother is getting married in the temple. He and his wife have been married civilly for 3 years. I believe that Temple mariage is not only essential to our salvation, but also that it is a source of the greatest happiness we can know. My question is...
What does it mean to honor thy father and thy mother?

What does it mean to honor thy father and thy mother?

Question   Gramps, What does honor thy father and thy mother mean?  When I say no to my parents, they always quote that. Please tell me what that means. Liam   Answer   Dear Liam, What you are not saying is what you are saying “no” to. Are you saying...
Pre-existence

Pre-existence

Hi Gramps, We are born into life and we take on the appearance and the traits of our parents and ancestors. We are all brothers and sisters, but how much of our original spiritual character survives through all the genetic and environmental influences from birth to...
Sexless Marriage

Sexless Marriage

There is much written about and included in talks regarding sexual promiscuity and pornography. Rarely is the topic of a sexless marriage addressed. Physical intimacy helps bind a marriage and without it usually one of the partners suffers. I don’t want to spend...
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