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Are we discouraged from blessing our food when out in public?

Are we discouraged from blessing our food when out in public?

Question   Dear Gramps, A friend told me recently that a General Authority had told us not to bless the food when we eat in a restaurant. Is this true? Are we discouraged from blessing the food in public? She said that we are supposed to bless it before we go...

Did we have an extended heavenly family?

Did we have an extended heavenly family?

Question   Dear Gramps, Assuming the widely held assumption that Heavenly Father was once a man like us, with a Heavenly Father of his own, does that mean that we have an extended celestial spirit family? For example, do we have heavenly grandparents, uncles,...

Is it possible Jesus appeared to me as a child?

Is it possible Jesus appeared to me as a child?

Question   Dear Gramps, Is it possible for Jesus to actually appear to me as a child?  I remember being upset, and then I believe I actually saw Him.  I then felt an ease come over me and turned, falling asleep.  I was not sleeping before this.  Thank you very...

Is the Holy Ghost in spirit prison and paradise?

Is the Holy Ghost in spirit prison and paradise?

Question   Gramps, Is the Holy Ghost in spirit prison and paradise? Does the Holy Ghost work in both the physical and spiritual realms? Beatrice   Answer   Beatrice, That’s a really thoughtful question, and honestly, it sits right at the intersection of...

Do I need to pay tithing on social security?

Do I need to pay tithing on social security?

Question   Gramps, I was told by my Bishop that I didn't have to pay tithe off my Social Security check because I paid my tithe when I was working. I pay my tithe when I get my retirement checks on the 1st of every month. I hope you can help me with this issue....

What is a solemn assembly?

What is a solemn assembly?

Question   Gramps, I heard it announced that there will be a solemn assembly during General Conference in April. What exactly is a solemn assembly? Shelli   Answer   Shelli, General Conference is the heart of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day...

What is the origin of the Priesthood?

What is the origin of the Priesthood?

Question   Dear Gramps, Could you please provide some context on the exact or supposed origin of the Priesthood? Gabriel   Answer   Gabriel, In the faith and culture of the Church, the priesthood is not just a title or a clerical function. It is...

When is divorce better than staying married?

When is divorce better than staying married?

Question   Gramps, I've been married to a non-member for 11 years. For the last month, I've been counseling with my Bishop about divorce. My husband is addicted to video games and plays 40-50 hours per week. We have 3 kids (he didn't really want any but agreed to...

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