Joseph Smith
Dear Gramps. Did Joseph Smith or any of the presidents of the church ever suggest that there will be a falling away of the members of the church at any stage and that they will return again as the signs of the times unfold. This is happening in our ward in South...
What benefit is a patriarchal blessing in the hereafter?
Question Gramps, As LDS members, we're told we have a right to a patriarchal blessing in this life, and to find out what tribe we belong to. But what benefit is the blessing in the hereafter? Grant Answer Grant, The purpose of a patriarchal...
Ordination of the President of the church
Who ordains the President of the Church? Tim ________________________________________ Dear Tim, When the current President of the church dies the First Presidency is dissolved. The Quorum of the Twelve Apostles then becomes the ranking authority of the church....
Sexual relations within marriage
Hi Gramps I was abused as a child and then married to a porn addict. Now I'm free from both situations but am very unclear on what healthy,married sexual relations should be. Is there anything from the brethren stating any clear guidelines? Surely just because your...
Culture and the Church
Dear Gramps, I really like this website, plenty of good answers to gospel questions I've often wondered about. In my searching of your site I have not found an answer that addresses one of my questions I've often wondered about concerning race. I come from a Tongan...
Temple Recommend
Does a spouse of a non member need their permission to receive a temple recommend? I am a former Bishop and I thought I remember in the handbook that if a women wanted to go to the temple, she needed the permission of her husband to get a temple recommend and take out...
Is playing with face cards evil?
Question Gramps, I recollect that Mormon Doctrine says (at least the first edition) says that face cards carry the inherit spirit of Satan (or words to similar effect). This refers more directly to the question than your answer (which was a good answer), but I frankly...
Who will live during the millenium?
Hey Gramps, I thought that when the Second Coming came to pass, then we'd all die and be resurrected in the blink of an eye. Than Satan would be bound and we'd live in the Millennium without his influence. But my parents think that only people who lived in the time of...
Language in blessings
When giving blessings, we are pronouncing a blessing as directed by the Spirit. This is different than a prayer. We, as priesthood holders, are receiving revelation as to what to say from the Father. Should we use the same language (thy,thou, etc.) in giving blessings...
Lamanites
Alma 3:9-10 says that if Nephites are "led away" by Lamanites their seed would have the "curse" of the Lamanites. But what if a Lamanite were converted by a Nephite, would the curse be lifted from their seed? Shawn _________________________________________ Dear Shawn,...
Books by General Authorities
Hi Gramps, When buying books written by the General Authorities of the Church, do we support them economically? Thanks John _______________________________________ Yes. Just keep in mind that one does not "get rich" by writing books for the LDS community. It is a...
Confused in Love
HI, I am a 29 year old guy who was in love with a 28 year old gal. She said she loved me a lot. I too liked her a lot. Her parents approved but my parents didnt and due to this all of a sudden she got engaged to another guy even without giving me time to convince my...
Where did Satan’s power originate?
Question Gramps, We know that all true power comes from God, or the priesthood, so what's the source of Satan's power? Joseph Smith felt it before the first vision, and the priests conjured up serpents before Moses's ate them. I know there's opposition in all...
Staying single
Question Since we were created to marry and procreate, should I just be content with staying single since I can't have children(surgically removed)? Am I not receiving the blessings I could if I were married? Stacey Answer Dear Stacey, You a...
I found God somewhere else
Hi Gramps, I left home for college three years ago, taking up a religious studies major. My family is one of strong faith in the LDS church, and were concerned when I chose not to go on a mission. They were patient with my faith struggles because of my diligent search...
The Sign of the Dove
Dear Gramps, Could you please share anything you know about the Sign of the Dove. In my religion class a quote from the Prophet Joseph Smith "The sign of the dove was instituted before the creation of the world, a witness for the Holy Ghost, and the devil cannot come...
If I’m late and miss the bread, is it okay to just partake of the water during the Sacrament?
Question Gramps, If I am late for the sacrament and the bread has already been served, is it ok to just take the water? DeLeon Answer Dear DeLeon, The sacrament is a complete ordinance meant for the cleansing and renewing of covenants. Would it be...
Jesus Christ’s Crucifixion
Bruce R. McConkie, in his last address prior to his death, bore testimony that Jesus re-experienced the agonies of the Garden of Gethsemane while on the cross. I don't recall ever reading that in the scriptures or hearing that from any other apostle or prophet. Have...
Baptism by fire
Dear Gramps, What is the "fire"when you are baptized by fire? Looking through the scriptures I am finding a lot of comparison of fire and angels. So I have come to believe that it is angels surrounding you and partaking in giving the gift of the holy ghost. Am I way...
Not Good Enough
Dear Gramps, I have a testimony of the gospel, but I struggle to serve in callings because of my social anxiety. It seems whenever I accept a calling, I struggle with my activity. I have suffered from depression since my teenage years. I hate Sunday's because I...
How did Jesus fast for 40 days?
Hi Gramps, Thank you for taking the time to read this. And I thank you in advance for the time you spend if you do have time to answer my question. I am wondering about Jesus and his fasting for forty days. I should probably already know this. But I am just wondering....
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