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Revelation

Revelation

Dear Gramps, I am very confused. In the Journal of Discourses there are a few quotes by John Taylor saying that any person who has an abortion can never receive eternal life in the celestial kindgom. Today Elder Boyd K. Packer has said that you can be forgiven of an...

Judas’ Betrayal

Judas’ Betrayal

I know that the Savior chose all His disciples. I wonder if He knew the role that Judas Iscariot was to play in His betrayal? Also what about Judas' agency, if he hadn't betrayed the Savior would someone else have taken the step? Margaret Dear Margaret, The scriptures...

Is it okay to lie?

Is it okay to lie?

Gramps, is it ok to lie to catch a lie? Is it ok to lie to stop a crime? Police use prostitution and other stings all the time which deceive criminals in order to arrest them. People, often parents to their children, pretend to know the truth of a matter to get info...

Would Heavenly Father tell my husband to divorce me?

Would Heavenly Father tell my husband to divorce me?

Question   Gramps, My husband is divorcing me after 22 years of marriage and 5 children. We have had a lot of trials in the past years and plenty of bickering. We have tried counseling as well. He says that he has been very unhappy for 10 years and has prayed...

Can a mortal woman and an immortal man bear children?

Can a mortal woman and an immortal man bear children?

I believe this has happened. See the early chapters in the Book of Luke. It seems evident that immortals are capable of having physical children as well...consider Adam and Eve. I hope I will be blessed to give birth to children in the Millennium since I haven't been...

Masons

Masons

Can I join a Masonic lodge? Albert Dear Albert, In doing an online search to answer your question, the only counsel that was given was this: Don LeFevre, a past spokesman for the church has said the church "...strongly advises its members not to affiliate with...

Sacrament

Sacrament

Why is the Sacrament not taken during General Conference? No one can answer my question. Can you please help me gramps? Thank you. Brother Bull Dear Brother Bull, I'll try and answer this the best I can. Let's take a look at the names of these different meetings....

Was Christ taught by angels?

Was Christ taught by angels?

Hey gramps, I taught gospel doctrine and shared a thought that, for whatever reason, I felt I heard before but had two guys come up and rebuke me for teaching. I taught that angels helped raise the savior. I can't find anything that should give me such an...

Spirits in the Spirit World

Spirits in the Spirit World

Hi Gramps, After the resurrection, our bodies and spirits will be the age where we were in our prime, right? How old are spirits once they leave this earth? Are the babies still babies? I wonder because I know a man who just passed away, his wife passed 30 years ago....

Are we to wear our Sunday clothes all day?

Are we to wear our Sunday clothes all day?

Question Hi! I was wondering if there is a statement made by any general authority as to wearing Sunday clothing during the entire day. Are we recommended to do so? Thanks. Cesar   Answer Dear Cesar, There is no official policy or statement that requires us to...

Dinosaurs before the Fall of Adam?

Dinosaurs before the Fall of Adam?

Dear Gramps, As I understand it, there was no death prior to the fall of Adam, but is it possible that death was allowed DURING the creation itself, hence the evidence of a lot of dead dinosaurs and fossils which would appear to "pre-date" the time of Adam? Is there...

I am guilty of infidelity. What will happen to me?

I am guilty of infidelity. What will happen to me?

Question   Gramps, I am so sad. I am married to a wonderful husband and have four beautiful children. Yet I made a very foolish decision. I fooled around sexually with another man. I am so sad and afraid. What will happen to me? What do I need to do to fix this?...

Celestial Marriage

Celestial Marriage

Dear gramps, I am sealed to my former spouse. We have five children born in the covenant. We divorced. Not by my choice. I remarried and am sealed to my new wife. I still love my ex wife. I don't have any inappropriate relationship with her. She confessed that she got...

Peter, James and John the Beloved

Peter, James and John the Beloved

In D&C Section 7 where it talks about how John is blessed by Christ to remain on earth until he returns, it talks about how Peter and James his brother would minister for him. I've been looking through the footnotes and though I'm not done researching it I...

Callings for an 11th hour laborer

Callings for an 11th hour laborer

Dear Gramps, After many many years (20+), a year ago I returned to The Church, but my wife has not embraced the light of The Gospel. We were not married and sealed in The Temple. Is my lack of being sealed to an eternal companion going to preclude me from serving in...

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