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In Lehi’s dream, who is he talking to?

In Lehi’s dream, who is he talking to?

Question   Gramps, In Lehi’s dream in 1 Nephi 8:14 who is Lehi talking to?  Joseph and Jacob are not yet born. Sariah, Nephi, and Sam are seen in the dream. Later in vs 17, Laman and Lemual are seen. So who (which child) is Lehi talking to? Note: 14. And I looked...

What is the LDS policy on cremation?

What is the LDS policy on cremation?

Question   Dear Gramps, I've been told that LDS have been counseled not to cremate their dead. But a good LDS friend of mine died while on a trip to Costa Rica, and his non-member family in the states had the authorities there cremate him and ship his ashes back...

Polynesian lineage

Polynesian lineage

What lineage are the Polynesian peoples? Pat _________ Pat, on the whole, there isn't an official Church position on the origin of the Polynesians. That being said, a number of Apostles have opined that they are descendants of Lehi. President Joseph F. Smith said,...

Gabriel/Noah

Gabriel/Noah

Dear Gramps: I´m delighted reading and learning both from the questions and from your answers about every theme is published in the page. I love to search through all the new and all the old. Thanks! Recently I watched the videos about the life of Jesus Christ on...

Michael/Adam and the Priesthood

Michael/Adam and the Priesthood

Michael had the priesthood and participated in the creation. Before entering the garden, Adam was given (eternally married) to Eve. After they were driven from the garden, Adam was given the Aaronic and Melchizedek priesthood. Did Adam (and Eve)lose the priesthood...

Judas being a Son of Perdition

Judas being a Son of Perdition

Hello, I love your site here and all the good work you are doing by answering our questions. Thank you. My question is concerning Judas being a son of perdition. I read your response in reference to "those that are sons of perdition." Specifically, where you reference...

Laying on of Hands in Book of Mormon

Laying on of Hands in Book of Mormon

Why is there no reference made in 3 Nephi chapter 11 to receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost by laying on of hands? Thomas _____________ Thomas, the reason you don't see any confirmation references made in 3 Nephi 11 is because that chapter is only the first part of...

Archangel Raziel

Archangel Raziel

Dear gramps, Do Mormons belive in the Archangel Raziel? Juliette _____________ Juliette, Under various Jewish traditions, the Archangel Raziel is known for being the Keeper of Secrets/Mysteries, as well as sitting by the Lord's throne keeping a record of the heavenly...

Illegal copying

Illegal copying

Dear Gramps, A few years ago when I was not very faithful in the gospel, I got my sister-in-law started on making illegal copies of movies borrowed from rental outlets and the library. I provided her with the software and instruction on how to do it. I have since...

Confession regarding Word of Wisdom

Confession regarding Word of Wisdom

Do I have to confess to my bishop if I ate coffee desert? I ordered it but didnt know it had coffee in it until after I ordered it. If I didnt eat it it's a waste of money. josh __________ Josh, When it comes to the Word of Wisdom, which this would fall under, most of...

Lies and Guilt

Lies and Guilt

I did something against my nature ..I lied to my mom about where I was going and who was going to pick me up. I said I was going to a friends house and that she and her dad were coming to get me. She never follows me to the car, but she did last night, and she saw who...

Tattoos

Tattoos

Dear gramps, I am 19 years old and currently trying to return back to church. I've been less active for 5 years. In the time I was away I got two tattoos on my wrists. My question gramps is what does the average church member think about tattoos? Sometimes I feel like...

Falling in love with a missionary

Falling in love with a missionary

Dear Gramps. I have no idea what to do. Two months ago I opened my door to two missionaries who have shown me the way to the lord. They have been teaching me for about two maybe three months now, every time I see one of them my heart skips a beat and all I want to do...

KJV of the Bible

KJV of the Bible

My wife says the "NIV" translation of the OT and NT is not valid. Where is it stated that the LDS Church sanctations/authorizes the KJV? Please help me! Sincerely, Vic ______________ Vic, The LDS edition of the King James Version of the Bible is unique in that the...

15 year old hormonal nightmare

15 year old hormonal nightmare

Dear Gramps, What do I do with our 15 year old boy, who up until 8 weeks ago had a strong testimony? He has always been spiritual. He is a hormonal nightmare now who is fighting for autonomy in his life. He resents us and doesn't like us right now at all. He says he's...

Desire for blessings not fulfilled

Desire for blessings not fulfilled

Within the church we are taught that temple marriage and children are blessings that we should all aspire to have. But some of us don't have those blessings and might never have them in this life. Some people just aren't blessed with those opportunities and some don't...

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