Is it appropriate to attending “Christenings?”
Dear Gramps, I know a number of members who have attended 'Christenings' at the request of friends or family. I have always turned down such invitations as I always think of the statement by Mormon that infant baptism is an abomination in the sight of God. Am I right...
How can I break a habit?
Dear Gramps, I have a habit that I cannot get rid of! I've tried everything I could think of, even everything the bishop can think of, and I still don't seem cured! Most of them work at least for a few days then I start feeling like I'm cured & that's when I start...
How can I mend a broken relationship with my son and his family?
Question Dear Gramps: I am a grieving mother of a 31 year-old son who is married and has three children. We are strong members of the church and so is he and his family. Two years ago we had a disagreement with him and have apologized for our part several times...
Why do I cry when I feel the spirit?
Gramps, Why do I cry when I feel the spirit? BJ, from Utah Dear BJ, To be in the presence of the Holy Spirit is a highly emotional experience. His spirit speaks to our spirit. When we get in touch with our spiritual selves so that the spirit rather than the desires of...
Why were Adam and Eve given conflicting commands?
Gramps, I had a question come up in my 16-17 year old Sunday school class that I am having difficulties answering. We where talking about the two forms of death physical and spiritual, when one of my young students me asked about Adam and Eve and the two commandments...
As a 20 year old, is it normal to get very scared as marriage gets closer to becoming a reality?
Dear Gramps, I am wondering what some of your thoughts are on marriage. I'm 20 years old and about to make that very important decision. We've dated over a year. Is it normal to get very scared as marriage becomes real and as I discuss it with my boyfriend? I know he...
Should I tell my mother’s Bishop she is teaching false doctrine to us?
Dear Gramps, My mother is a member of the church, and she has taken out her own endowments, and my brother too, who went on a mission following this sacred event. She was also sealed to my deceased father and sealed to my brother also. My brother served his mission...
A talk radio show said God doesn’t answer prayers. Does He?
Dear Gramps, I feel pretty discouraged when I pray in "someone else's" behalf and the prayer never seems to get answered. I was listening to a talk radio show that discussed prayer and it was mentioned that God doesn't answer prayers, we answer them ourselves in some...
What is a reasonable amount of time to forgive a spouse for being unfaithful?
Dear Gramps, questions: 1) In Leviticus, chapter 12, it refers to the time a woman was considered unclean after giving birth. Why was that length of time twice as long for the birth of a baby girl than for a baby boy? 2) Have you any idea what would be considered a...
Why should we believe Joseph Smith saw God or Jesus?
Gramps, Have you ever seen Satan? Have you ever seen God or Jesus? If you are honest, you will answer, "no." I have to ask myself whether or not Mormons should believe Joseph Smith did. The church doesn't like us to talk about it, but he did have a reputation for...
What is the Church’s position on tattoos, rhinoplasty and other cosmetic surgery?
Question Dear Gramps, I've written before and I have another question. Is there an official church position in regard to tattoos? Before I joined the church I had one and am considering having it removed. Also, how about things like rhinoplasty and other...
What is the Church’s belief on suicide?
Gramps, What is the Church's belief on Suicide? A Catholic friend of mine recently took his own life and his wife and child asked me what our church believed is his fate. Their Priests said because he took his own life he was going to hell. How can I help this family?...
Is there an official Church statement concerning talking about doctrine outside of Church meetings?
Gramps, Is there any official Church statement or quote from the brethren concerning talking about Church doctrine outside of Church sanctioned meetings. It seems I heard something like this, that it is requested so we don't start talking about things we shouldn't or...
Does it mean I won’t get married if not mentioned in my Patriarchal Blessing?
Question Dear Gramps, I am pretty worried because in all my friend's patriarchal blessings it's written that the Lord is preparing a good husband for them and that one day they will get married. But in mine there is nothing about that. Does it mean that I won't get...
Are members discouraged from being organ donors?
Question Gramps, I do have a question for you! I remember being taught at some point that as LDS we were discouraged from being organ doners. If this is correct (and I might have just heard something wrong) could you please tell me why? Are there scriptures or...
Does it mean anything if a tribe was not mentioned in my Patriarchal blessing?
Dear Gramps, In my Patriarchal Blessing there was not a tribe mentioned. Do you know what this means? Thanks Lorraine, from California Dear Lorraine, It has no significance. Normally, one's tribe is mentioned in a patriarchah blessing. It would not be out of place for...
Isn’t the living allowance that General Authorities receive considered pay?
Question Gramps, I have had a few people ask the question, "How can your church continue to say you have a lay ministry when your general authorities receive a living allowance. Is this not considered pay?" Bob Answer Dear Bob, Certainly at least...
Did Joseph Smith die a poor man?
Question Gramps, I am always arguing with my mother on The Book of Mormon and other LDS issues. She is a nonmember who tries to prove that Joseph Smith is a fraud and that the whole church is a fraud. I love her arguing because it makes my testimony stronger every...
What happened to Hyrum Smith’s five children?
Dear Gramps, My husband and I teach an adult institute class on the History of the Church. Someone asked us what happened to Hyrum Smith's five children that he had by his first wife Jerusha. Jerusha died and then Hyrum married Mary Fielding who was the mother of...
What is the Church’s stand on hypnosis?
Question Dear Gramps, I was wondering, what is the church's stand on hypnosis? Or do they have one? Is it okay to use to overcome bad habits? Would you be making yourself vulnerable to someone else's suggestion, thus your free agency? I'm just not clear on...
If we are punished for our own sins and not for Adam’s (or Eve’s) transgression, then why is it that we must work by the sweat of our brows and in sorrow bear children?
Dear Gramps, If we are punished for our own sins and not for Adam's (or Eve's) transgression, then why is it that we must work by the sweat of our brows and in sorrow bear children? Chip @deseretonline.com Dear Chip, When Adam and Eve lived in the Garden of Eden, the...
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