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Muslim Belief

Muslim Belief

Dear Gramps, Why are people so sure that Muslims don't believe in the same God we do? Reason I'm asking, my daughter is planning to marry a Muslim man. We love him but are very concerned about differences in religion. We are Christian. He claims same God, but doesn't...

Fellowshipping

Fellowshipping

Dear Gramps: I tried fellowshipping a lady in my branch who was and still is inactive. I tried to help her whenever she needed help, I spent time with her, I listened to her, etc. Then I discovered that she was constantly lying. She would tell me things that would...

How many judges were there in the Book of Judges?

How many judges were there in the Book of Judges?

Question   Gramps, How many judges were there? Otheniel, Deborah, Ehud, Sampson, etc. How many were there in all? Thanks for your help. Daniel   Answer   Dear Daniel, I count 13 judges Othniel, the son of Kenaz from the tribe of Judah (3:7-11) Ehud, the...

Who needs to know of an excommunication?

Who needs to know of an excommunication?

Question   Gramps, I committed sexual sin after going to the temple. I know I have to confess to my bishop. The question I have is this, how many people have to know if I am excommunicated? I had a friend that was excommunicated and she told no one but most of...

Housing the missionaries

Housing the missionaries

If we are asked to house the missionaries in our home, is this considered a calling? Would I be turning down a calling from the Lord if I don't feel good about doing this? Sherri Sherri, Housing the missionaries is not a calling (no setting apart) as much as it is an...

Transsexuals and the Priesthood

Transsexuals and the Priesthood

A woman asked to be removed from the records of the church. She then had a sex change operation and is living as a man, attending church. This person expects to be rebaptised and given the priesthood. I can see rebaptism, maybe, but do you agree with my supposition...

How is someone saved that is not a Christian?

How is someone saved that is not a Christian?

The young man was shot in the head by a drug dealer. As far as we know he was not a church member any where. How is he to be saved? Laura Dear Laura, You ask a question that has been asked for ages. "What happens to those that die before they learned of Christ. Before...

Why aren’t repentance and being born again enough?

Why aren’t repentance and being born again enough?

Question   Gramps, Why do members of the LDS church believe that simply repenting for your sins and being born again aren't enough? You do NOT need to do "good works" to be accepted by Christ. Yes, it's great if you do, but there is no need at all to try and be...

Entry into paradise

Entry into paradise

Is baptism and confirmation in our temples sufficient to allow spirits in spirit prison to enter paradise in the spirit world? Someone in priesthood today was telling us that in order to cross the gulf into paradise that all of their temple ordinances must be...

Temple garments

Temple garments

Question   Dear Gramps, A relative of mine has begun to question the necessity of wearing his garments at all times. He has not been to the temple in many years and cannot return at this time. Because certain things that are discussed in the temple are sacred and...

Sin

Sin

Dear Gramps, I was reading one of the questions you answered and needed a little more information. When the Savior comes will we still commit sin? If Satan is bound, are we still being temped by the devil or are man just a sinful creature that dosn't need much...

Blood sacrifices/Law of Moses

Blood sacrifices/Law of Moses

I have a problem; the Church agrees with mainline Christians that when Jesus came, he fullfilled the Law of Moses, so therefore, Animal or blood sacrifice was done away with; last year in Gospel principles class, the teacher was discussing the chapter of Sacrifice,...

Spirits

Spirits

I've heard that some members who have had their ancestors baptised for have dead people show up at their window and tell them that the church is true. Does this really happen? Because I don't want a bunch of dead people showing up at my window. Melissa Dear Melissa,...

Fulfillment of our destiny

Fulfillment of our destiny

What do you think about my question; does God fulfill our destiny or does He makes a better fulfillment in our destiny? Nhan Dear Nhan, God prepares a way for us to fulfill our destiny. What we make of our lives is up to us. God has given us the tools to work with, so...

A Sure Witness

A Sure Witness

What is meant by "a sure witness"? Also, what is an "apostolic witness"? Marc Dear Marc, Doctrine & Covenants 107:23 23 The twelve traveling councilors are called to be the Twelve Apostles, or special witnesses of the name of Christ in all the world—thus differing...

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